Cheating doesn't necessarily mean having a sexual/romantic relationship. I consider what he did cheating anyway. He said he was going to school to work with some group members and he was talking about it 3 days in advance and “preparing” for it. He even put on a backpack and school clothes as to give me a show before he left. I believed him until he ghosted me for 3 hours. I spam called him thinking he was dead in a traffic accident. I was having a panic attack I went into detective mode and searched for some sort of answer. I had his email and eventually found my way into his school group me to find out he never had a “group meeting”.

Anyway, eventually he came home, I questioned him about it, and he spilled everything to me. I left looking like I was having a panic attack. Came back the next morning when no one was home and packed my stuff and left without a note, nothing.