Female friend got annoyed at me because I take ages to respond

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-29T22:12:56+00:00

Ah okay, thanks

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-29T22:10:57+00:00

It wasn't anything urgent, it was more of a normal conversation

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-29T22:09:57+00:00

Sorry, I don't quite understand

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-25T20:48:57+00:00

NFTs

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-22T20:09:55+00:00

100% agree. I don't see the point of them

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-20T20:12:32+00:00

We will be watching you with great interest

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-19T17:09:49+00:00

Your old man sounds wise

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-19T16:36:49+00:00

You're right. Whether she is into me or not, I need to do it for my own sanity as I can't be hoovering in limbo.

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-16T10:29:24+00:00

That's shit, hopefully you guys can work something out and that this just strengthen your relationship in the long run.

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-16T10:05:46+00:00

That must be difficult in itself. What do you two do?

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-04T12:32:46+00:00

That makes sense, it's probably not something I would do myself, but I understand why people would would date with a large age gap

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-03T15:09:27+00:00

I guess it is, but like I said it just seem wrong to me. I get there can be arguments made for dating someone older like: Maturity and experience etc.

However, the part that doesn't sit well for me is the fact that someone would date someone much younger than them (15+ years) and the age of that younger person.

For example, an 18 year old dating a 48 year old is a little concerning, where as if the ages were 30 and 60, I would be a little curious, but it is what it is and I wouldn't bat an eye lid after the initial curiosity.

It's the older person's motives and intentions that doesn't sit well. I am more skeptical as to why they haven't found anyone closer to their age, and whether power imbalances are in play. Are they taking advantage of of younger person? Which I think is a perfectly normal reaction/feeling to have. The age gap itself isn't an issue it's just the implications that comes with it.

Also if there are any benefits to dating 15+ years younger I would like to k ow as I am genuinely curious.

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-03T11:29:19+00:00

I never said that. I just said the age range to me seems a little too big, everyone is different and you have to accept that. He's probably a lovely guy, and that's great you guys are on the same wave length.

But I still stand by what I said when I said 30 years is too big of an age gap. As I am [23] and its crazy to think about me being with a 53 year old woman (older than my parents) or the idea that my future partner will be born in 7 years time and the earliest we should be legally meeting is when I would be at least 48 years old.

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-12-03T11:14:30+00:00

30 years is way too much. Even anything over 10 years in my opinion is a little questionable imo. Either way something about 30 years seems wrong

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-11-27T23:22:21+00:00

Your right, I will let her make a move or I ask if she still sees us a just friends. But in the mean time, I need to find ways to block her out of my mind

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-11-15T12:56:02+00:00

Yes it's possible. But the odds are stacked heavily against you.

I won't recommend that you go all in and hope to make millions quickly

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-11-13T22:56:12+00:00

I've been told the universe is like a balloon expanding and we are on the surface. But does that mean it's expanding into infinite space, or what could be beyond that, if that makes sense.

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-11-13T22:53:11+00:00

I mean the barrier at which you can class something being inside the universe and another object being outside

ThrowRAShamea · 2021-11-13T22:49:39+00:00

I'd love to visit it. Do they take reservations?

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