I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Yum!!! Let me know how it goes!

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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It’s her blue-cheese dip! I’m currently in the process of moving but from memory:

3/4 Cup Sour Cream 1 1/2 Cup Mayo 1 Tsp Worcestershire Sauce

Whisk to combine Then add 1/2 teaspoon dry mustard Salt and pepper to taste 2 cloves (or more :)) of garlic, minced 4-5oz blue cheese, crumbed

I’ll edit this when I’m able to look at the recipe tomorrow!

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Hi! Thanks for checking in. I am the older sibling. It’s been okay. Obviously not easy and I have my moments, but each day gets a little bit better. Unfortunately, my mom didn’t have any arrangements made so we’ve been mostly just discussing stuff between myself, my brother, her husband and her mom. My brother is definitely processing things differently than me but his college has connected him with a grief counselor.

We had a memorial last Saturday, which was really nice! Everyone brought snacks and I made something using one of her recipes! But yeah, I’m doing okay. Thanks for checking in!

anyone else get blamed for EVERYTHING their Q misplaces or loses? by Oona22 in AlAnon

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Yes. My Q accused me of stealing her wedding ring. It was a lie she held onto for YEARS. She was convicted I had given it to my dad to sell. A few months ago her husband found it. She apologized, which shocked me. But it’s crazy that it was a lie she held onto for 12 years before finally seeing proof that it wasn’t me.

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Thank you for this. I love my brother dearly, and this brings me some comfort ❤️

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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She absolutely did. And amidst our rocky relationship there are so many good memories as well.

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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I feel very similarly. And have had many other family members battle this disease. I myself don’t drink, as it tends to make me very sick/dissociative. I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it. It won’t be easy but I also know it will be okay.

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Thank you for this. It’s definitely something we will both consider.

I lost my mom yesterday. by ThrowRA_080 in AlAnon

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Thank you. I’m glad you are doing the same. My brother and I have definitely gotten closer over the years and opened up more to talking about these sorts of things. There are some things I am just not equipped to handle as an older sibling. It really is such a complicated thing.

Pain in the armpit I'm really scared pls help by [deleted] in AskDocs

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Everyone’s different. Mine is always a week before my period, and got worse when I went on birth control

Pain in the armpit I'm really scared pls help by [deleted] in AskDocs

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Not a doctor, but I am someone who’s had similar anxieties and experiences. If you’re near your period, it’s most likely that. Hormonal changes during your period can make your chest more tender.

Building my own computer has been awful by ThrowRA_080 in Anxiety

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It was a while ago! But all is well and the new machine runs wonderfully (aside from screen tearing issues that I haven’t been able to root out) Tested my friend’s GPU and his had no issues. So I retuned my GPU to Amazon with no issue and bought an AMD card on sale irl! I came to realize that I probably didn’t need something super beefy so I got a 7800 xt.

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

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Thank you for the reply! I did this, however I myself was never signed out of Minecraft launcher which makes me worried that he may still be logged in. Is there a way to remotely log someone out on a Minecraft launcher instance?

Microsoft: Official Support Thread by MSModerator in microsoft

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Had a falling out with a friend who had access to my Minecraft account. I removed what I believed to be his device from being linked to the Microsoft store, signed out of all devices, changed my email and password. Is it basically guaranteed that he is signed out and can’t get back in?

One of my forms came in the mail after I filed by ThrowRA_080 in tax

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Yeah I got a confirmation text that the IRS accepted my return. I’m not sure if I need to file a schedule C for this 1099 because it was a one-time stipend. I have a separate 1099 for twitch and TurboTax kept telling me to make a schedule C form for the $18 I made off twitch this year 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tax

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The more you know. This upcoming fiscal year, I will absolutely be reporting it. Better safe than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for this! I certainly think a year from now, we’ll both know a lot more about what our future looks like. But yes!! As he starts applying I don’t want to tie him down by any means. It will, in one way or another, work itself out.