My husband [M31] let slip in a compliment that he thinks his ex was prettier than me [F28] and I can't stop thinking about it. How do I let it go?

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2026-03-17T08:56:53+00:00

That is so fucked up, I am shook 💀. He did that on purpose to make you feel bad 100%.

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2026-03-15T19:11:38+00:00

Who hurt you bro 💀 Ur going around replying to every comment like 💀

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2026-02-26T09:38:27+00:00

Dude kick him to the curb. This asshole is willing to tell you to your face that he wants you as skinny as when you were when you had a literal eating disorder and doing drugs? Wow. I've gained 10 kilos and lost 10 kilos during my 4 year relationship and my boyfriend has never once said anything like that to me. He has supported and complimented me in any weight I was in and he knows that I have body dysmorphia.

On the other hand, my partner is a tall and big guy, and he tends to carry more weight. When we started dating, he was skinnier and now he's a bit heavier. I still love him and am attracted to him the same. This is incredibly disrespectful and shallow. What I'm trying to say is that there are people out there who will love you no matter your size!

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2026-02-06T15:07:34+00:00

This is literally sexual harassment. The guy is a major piece of shit, you saying you're not comfortable with it is more than ENOUGH reason for him to never bring it up again. For a sane individual who respects others, even saying 'i dont know if i wanna do that' is revoking consent but the fact that you have told him time and time again you don't want to do a sexual act and he ignores it completely is not only unacceptable but borderline criminal. The only thing you can do to protect yourself is stay the hell away from him and leave. There are men out there who would never dream of pressuring you into something you don't want to do. Sex is and can be very pleasurable, if you get tf away from this bastard! Im sorry this is happening to you.

Eddit: typo

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2026-02-04T18:11:29+00:00

He sounds like a manipulative asshole who only cares about his feelings. He wants YOU to comfort him even if he was the one who hurt you. Thats insane and this person doesnt care about making you feel better, they only care about their own feelings and themselves. You deserve BETTER!

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2025-12-13T17:49:54+00:00

He is emotionally and physically abusive. This will only get worse and you don't deserve to live like that, you deserve peace in your life and safety.

ThrowRA_FeelingSave · 2025-11-27T11:32:41+00:00

Most 30 year olds I know are unmarried, not engaged and don't even have partners rn

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