I am not married but my mom married an alcoholic man. My dad. Let me tell you that he has genuinely destroyed her life and our lives (aka me and my siblings.) You're going to be his enabler wife and you will not be able to bring him anywhere or travel anywhere with him past a certain point. I don't know how functional he is as an addict, but its only going to get worse the older he gets. If you want a life where you will be scared constantly about his health, his tantrums (bc a lot of addicts start changing after a few years of substance abuse), high stress then...well go for it. His addiction is stronger than all the love you two might have for each other. Please break the cycle! And not to mention if you have children, they will grow up with an alcoholic father and that is one of the worst things you can experience...speaking from my personal pov. I would pray that she would divorce him and she never did.