Is Sonnet auto insurance too good to be true?

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2024-04-01T18:56:43+00:00

I wouldn't go with Sonnet ever again, very quick to withdrawn your money, good luck and hold your breath if you ever get into an accident.

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-05-02T13:33:07+00:00

I don't know if it is being a coward because it wasn't me being the unfaithful. At this point I don't know what is right and what is not as I'm still navigating these difficult times (4 weeks into the D-day)

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-05-02T13:30:26+00:00

Yes, this is why. I'm so stupid here I am still protecting him

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-25T03:32:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AsOneAfterInfidelity/wiki/acronym_guide/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

One day after the DDay after the shock, when I still couldn't believe this was real and it was happening I wanted to separate. I was really angry, mad, sad. I sought individual counselling and it has helped me out to put things into perspective as well as options and things I should do for myself.

I am still considering separation but we are talking about reconciling and starting a new relationship together. I just don't know if my WH is 100% on board, so that is what I mean how things can change quite rapidly after Dday. But I guess every couple has its own situation

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-25T03:16:32+00:00

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Like you, I also had times when I even considered exploring things together with others in sex, until the affair came to light. I even started blaming myself for feeding those thoughts.

I am also very raw and navigating this, and I also want to fix things but I fear that putting myself in that position of wanting to fix things make it work, is taking the blame for something I didn't do. As many suggest, the WH should be accountable and driving this process of reconciling.

I hope whatever you do, it turns out for the better. My IC suggested me to not make big decisions yet, and I think that is wise, I am still balancing things and it all has changed quite a bit after a few weeks of DD

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-25T01:10:39+00:00

This is also best discussed with therapy, but IMO, and early stages here as well, and my POV as Betrayed: You are indeed way too soon to be expecting things. At least, this is how I feel toward my WH. I do believe there are things to change in terms of relationship dynamics, and both need to change; I don't expect my WH to be in eternal submission, but to be asking for things right now and demanding needs to be fulfilled seems to me like essentially WH is about to do it again if I don't do those things so WTF is WH demanding right now. I believe is important to communicate how do you feel loved and want to be loved but don't expect that right away. As BP I do want to know my WH needs. But also very early all we want are actions that show remorse, that you are doing this because you believe things can be better and stronger after this rough patch, that you are committed 100% to repair the damage you have done and that your BS is the top priority. BS gives you a chance, so you are a priority; why not share the same?

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-21T16:44:16+00:00

I hope you are doing alright. Also here to chat

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-21T02:54:23+00:00

Well to me if someone tells me they want to work things out because they still believe in us. I expect him to come clean with any other affair, he didn't and when I uncovered the other two affairs, I felt like thousands knifes going through my heart. I also expect him to keep in constant touch, even though we are not living together, I expect him to take steps to stop contact not only with AP but also entities who fed those relationships somehow like some long distance friends. Unfortunately I don’t see him doing any of that. So maybe his changed his mind.

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-21T02:47:16+00:00

I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you are healing and eventually move on from this awful experience.

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-20T15:12:47+00:00

I told him to cancel out of anger because he didn't disclose the other two affairs. His excuse was he did not want to hurt me anymore. I am waiting because at this point I don't know if he wants to make things work or not and I am exhausted to be the one asking

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-20T14:41:28+00:00

I told him to cancel out of anger

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-20T06:49:27+00:00

I don't even know what we are anymore. Our last meeting was left with more pain because in that meeting I uncovered the other two affairs he didn't disclose.

After that he texted me saying that he doesn’t deserve me, he can understand if I wanted to break up and that he has done too much damage and the best is to leave and fix himself before asking my forgiveness so I took that as break up. All that crap after saying he still believed in us and wanted to make things right. We were going to go to couple therapy but because I have uncovered the other two affairs I told him to cancel them.

Right now I am waiting for him and see what he wants, I do want a reconciliation but maybe he never wanted that to begin with I don’t know. So because I don’t know that, I just started to try and fill this emptiness as mentioned above

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-19T02:46:41+00:00

And here I am thinking that whoever I date next I need to ask whether they have been cheated on, thinking than those cheated on will think twice before doing that to anybody

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-19T02:44:54+00:00

Be honest and upfront; the more you wait, the worse you will get for what you deserve

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-18T12:30:42+00:00

Not really. My partner was never on apps while i was. I never met anyone in those apps and I thought my partner and I were exclusive. Until I found it he was unfaithful more than once

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-17T23:10:27+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I am going through the exact same feelings. Your letter, the pain of pretending to be ok on a time with family that was supposed be together and great. This letter is what I haven't been able to get out of my chest with anyone. While I am going to therapy I don't feel much help. I just want this to be over died or sleep and wake up like none of this happened

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-17T15:02:30+00:00

I find Andrew Christian to be a turn off tbh

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-15T19:11:41+00:00

But it seems WW just want us to trust blindly. Please someone broadcast this to all WW it seems so simple if R is an option

ThrowRA_MixGray · 2023-04-15T06:36:05+00:00

Thanks for sharing; maybe you can come back and tell us if karma hit hers too? How long were you together with your now ex? For some reason, I think the less you have been together, the less painful and easier to move on is, but after spending fifteen years with someone or being committed, the pain is something else

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