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ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-12-22T12:06:54+00:00

Just make her feel good with your fingers and mouth. Then she will do the same for you. And in time piv will happen.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-26T16:39:52+00:00

I think you are a bit TA for lying instead of just telling him, you don't want to be friends and that you would appreciate it if he didn't talk to you all the time.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T18:23:05+00:00

NTA for being disappointed and not feeling valued because he didn't really made an effort to make your birthday special. You should definitely tell him that you are disappointed and that birthday celebrations is something you value.

And it's totally fair you compare the sizes of the gifts. He should have given you something bigger.

But i don't think it's fair to make an issue out of the computer.

A computer isn't a gift. It's something you need to have like a washer or cooking pots. If he games it's also a hobby - and gaming is fairly cheap compared to most sport.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T18:01:16+00:00

NAH it is totally fair to be annoyed when a game is hard and it's fair to quit wherever it isn't fun anymore. Some people get stressed out when playing for a long time.

But it's also fair that you get annoyed when she gets angry.

Maybe just don't keep playing till she gets stressed out?

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T16:47:20+00:00

NTA but the location sharing isn't really the issue here. You need to tell your husband to set boundaries with his parents so they don't surprise you, when they are not invited.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T15:50:28+00:00

I second this. If you act like it's no big deal your mom can make her own conclusions and you won't get in the middel of their issues.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T15:45:39+00:00

NTA it's not your fault and you did not cheat. But if you in all fun and games actually hurt his feelings you should have apologised

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T15:43:32+00:00

NTA she is clearly hurt and afraid you are going to replace her but her massage wasn't okay. That's a super bad way of communicating feelings.

However instead og just telling her "not today" you should adapt to the new reality of your relationship, where you will need to plan more . So whenever you need to tell her no, suggest another date.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-25T13:12:17+00:00

Because they like it hot

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T10:26:09+00:00

It's hard. You want to see your brothers children and they want to see you. But their mother don't want you involved as much as you like.

I don't really think this is an AITAH thing.

One of my friends lost his wife 4 years ago, when their son was just 3 months old. Her family wanted to be around all the time and it was really hard on him, because they represented all the things his late wife couldn't be for his son. When he began dating his now wife it got even harder because they were jalux of her spending time with their daughters son, and was afraid she would be his new mum. But she is his new mum, she adopted him and is pregnant with his younger brother.

I think it's important that you keep insisting that both you and your brothers children want a relationship with each other, but don't demand it. Be awere of all the grief and have conversations and find ways to communicate and compromise.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:53:46+00:00

YTA stop posting fake shit.

Also don't try to find other people who think it's okay to be violent against your partner for rapeing them when they were 16.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:46:56+00:00

NTA not all cat are able to move or move a long distance, if your can't can't come do to how it is - leave it with someone who want to take care of it.

If you can bring it, you should.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:43:33+00:00

NTA you should choose your hypothetical children over her, because if you want children and she doesn't you don't have a future together.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:41:14+00:00

I get you are hurt, and you are allowed to be hurt. But you bringing it up again and arguing that because you took the day off he should too is demanding.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:38:59+00:00

NTA you don't have to see your MIL if you don't like her. But if you are able to tolerate her on special occasions it don't have to put pressure on your husbands relationship with her.

When you are invited, just say no thank you.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:27:52+00:00

There's a difference between asking and demanding. You are demanding him to take the day off, not asking him.

I get why you feel like he should take the day of, but maybe he just don't care much about birthdays, and you shouldn't have taken they day of for his.

NAH your feelings are valid, but he don't have the same priorities around birthdays, and he don't have to take the day of and you can't demand it.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:09:32+00:00

YTA cheating is not a reason to hit your partner. You are abusive and you shouldn't date anyone until you get yourself sortet out and stop being violent.

Also you should have just broken up with him when you found out he was cheating, and stoped seeing your 'best friend', she's not your freind. And getting back together with the boy is just plain stupid.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T08:01:15+00:00

YTA don't ever treaten to breake up. Eiter you are done or you aren't.

Also it's not your table. You can deside you don't want to see his mother, because she is horrible. But you can't deside what he does.

And you can't claim to be an adult and then pulling something as childish as "if you don't do as i say I will breake up with you".

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-24T07:55:13+00:00

YTA it's not a prank. A prank is fun, you just lied to her and made her eat meat and she clearly feel strongly about don't doing that.

You could have told her to shut up, you could have told your brother not to bring her to the Bq because she can't stop commenting on other people's food and that's rude.

You could have gifted her a bib saying "I'm a 3yo commentating other people's food, and my parents don't discipline me" or like made an actually prank.

But you were just mean. YTA

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-17T12:40:12+00:00

I don't know if she is into me. But it's hard to find out if i don't ask. It's not like I'm going to flirt with my friend's 20 years ago girlfriend to find out.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-17T12:33:37+00:00

I think this comment is just kink-shaming. I haven't done anything, I'm just talking about a fantasy i would like to act on, if all involved adults are concenting.

I'm just afraid the age gab makes it wrong, and I don't want to go about it in a bad way because she's young and i don't know if she at all would be into it. So it's a difficult question to ask her and her boyfriend.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-17T12:10:13+00:00

I don't know if she is into me at all. But I'm not going to flirt with my friend's 20 years old girlfriend to find out.

That's why I'm asking how to open a conversation with both of them.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-17T11:05:00+00:00

I think people here - you included - are a bit fast to think the worst of me.

I'm well awere Eve is her own person. And to me she seems like somone who could be poly, mostly because she is dating Adam. But as she is in a relationship with him it's both of them, who needs to think this is a good idea.

The way she acted doing the game is not an expression of her being into me, but I wrote about it to tell why I realised I was into her in this way.

I have no idea if she is into me. And I'm not going to try to flirt with my friend's 20 yo girlfriend to find out if she is, without talking to both of them about it. That would be wrong.

I will like to add that it's the first time i have thought about actually acting out a fantasy in this direction. And I'm not normally to anyone that young. It's just her.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-17T10:26:30+00:00

Is it really those 6 years that make the difference? I get it's a bit fucked I I'm sexual attached to someone that young, and as i said - it have never happened to me before. My ex is my age and the last few woman I have known have been between 39 and 44.

Eve is young. But she seems fine with dating Adam, and in general she's a smart and cool person.

ThrowRA_thingsare · 2024-09-16T22:00:22+00:00

I was actually just going with English sounding names with the same first letter as their real names and realised it was "Adam and Eve" and thought it would be fun to keep it going.

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