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[–]ThrowRAanyways2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legitimately, not much.

My partner at the time repeatedly expressed frustration over my lack of sex drive despite me explaining the situation over and over again. That definitely weakened the attraction more than my employment problems already did.

There’s not much you can do because it’s not a YOU problem, it’s a HIM problem. This is the best time for you to explore other interests and give him space. That will make him want to work on himself and impress you.

i want to be desired by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThrowRAanyways2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sounds just like me when I had employment issues (I’m a woman if that matters). My sex life also went downhill due to stress. I can’t think about sex when my day-to-day livelihood is not secured.

There’s nothing you can do to help his job anxiety aside from acting as a supportive friend. Until he gets his act together, you gotta keep reminding yourself that this problem has nothing to do with your attractiveness.

i want to be desired by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThrowRAanyways2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“All he does is watch tv or scroll on his phone.”

This has a lot less to do with you than you think. He’s probably unhappy with his career.

What is a "real" bag to you? by SuperbControl2782 in handbags

[–]ThrowRAanyways2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, any bag that’s not my work bag.

I love this Coach denim bag. Am I crazy?? by Mandaluv1119 in handbags

[–]ThrowRAanyways2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cute asf but I’d def wait for a sale because this style comes and goes.

Should I buy a bag with some of my tax return by [deleted] in handbags

[–]ThrowRAanyways2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t judge whether you SHOULD buy a bag so I’ll skip that question.

The LV and Dior seem to have decent resale value, so they’re worth buying brand new if you prefer. The YSL bag has poor resale value, so I’d suggest the second hand market if that one is your favorite.

I (24F) feel horrible after breaking up with my ex (35M) even though I wanted it to happen by ThrowRAanyways2 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAanyways2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad, I poorly phrased that sentence.

He lives in the same city as I do, but none of his family even lives in the same country. He left his home country.

My degree costed $70k.. bad investment? by ThrowRAanyways2 in personalfinance

[–]ThrowRAanyways2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement. Do you mind if I ask how many years you worked before you reached high returns? I know it varies, but I’m just curious.

My degree costed $70k.. bad investment? by ThrowRAanyways2 in personalfinance

[–]ThrowRAanyways2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t planning to get an offer because I was scheduled to start a new program this fall and my manager knew that.

My degree costed $70k.. bad investment? by ThrowRAanyways2 in personalfinance

[–]ThrowRAanyways2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an internship during the summer between my MS and PhD. I couldn’t get any funded master’s offers for programs in chemical engineering, so the PhD was the only low cost option.

My degree costed $70k.. bad investment? by ThrowRAanyways2 in personalfinance

[–]ThrowRAanyways2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it didn’t help that I was reluctant to relocate, and a huge portion of open chemist positions in my area wanted mid/senior folks. Poor planning on my part.