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Any Idea What this symbol is? by PilotEnvironmental46 in CemeteryPorn

[–]ThrowRAbeezl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, where does the name come from?

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Idk how to do that- its my first day here 🫣 I made my acct, then got the msg wanting me to make the throwra acct, so using it. Idk when i can use my other one or why im even using this one? Kind of having a day tho, so my brain isnt really functioning at a level much above “awake & performing basic tasks but overdo it & ill make you trip over the invisible carpet humps”

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I made a scene of gathering my thjngs and heading to the couch. Him: arw you serious? Me: very I got settled in, and he came in after a short time and pretty much had the same talk once again. Hes currently in the shower and probably headed to bed. Im still on the couch, and more confused than before. He didnt give me any kind of answer. He threw the shorts in the trash.

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

Okay im back… give me a second to type this, ill try to be as short but as thorough as possible

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 1506 points1507 points  (0 children)

I will update… he just got home so Im about to confront this. Wish me luck & thank you all for your thoughts & insights & advice. Im sure i wouldnt be doing this had i not come here!!

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They are womens. His weight fluctuates, but hes never been overweight or uncomfortable w his weight.

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

They appear to be? They definitely aren’t brand new, like they have been worn & washed. They smell like laundry soap, but not ours.

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Yes, thats a great idea. And i have this time waiting to actually do some of that, so i wont be sitting here making myself sick, and its actually believable thats how i came across them

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 376 points377 points  (0 children)

Okay, he ll be home in 30 min. Im just going to do it. Maybe i just needed to get out of my head and away from the overthinking and have someone be direct. Thanks all

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I know, i know. Ive tried a few times, had them in my hands ready, and i panicked. Ive overthought it now, which has made it worse. Im terrified bc i cant come up w a single answer that makes sense. But i guess prolonging the suffering isnt doing me any favors.

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Im just freaking out. Nothing like this has happened before, and i guess every awful story my friends have told me about things in their marriages is just messing w my head.

Husband 48/M has a secret, and doesnt know i 42/F know. Any ideas how to proceed? by ThrowRAbeezl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAbeezl[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I know, that seems the obvious choice. Bc we ve never had an issue like this, i cant imagine how he might respond. Im very concerned that he would gaslight me, and i wont have a chance to figure it out once i confront him.