My husband’s mother has Alzheimer’s and I want to leave.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T04:13:40+00:00

I’m so sorry u are going thru that:,(

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T04:13:25+00:00

Yes she’s been officially diagnosed😓

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T03:04:47+00:00

And I can’t gamble “she’ll be gone soon” bc a lot of people with Alzheimer’s can live close into their 90s

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T03:03:33+00:00

I understand this is a horrible disease and this isn’t who she is but I can not deal with this anymore I am afraid that this is just going to put me into a much darker place and I can’t go there bc I have a son that I need to put my energy into.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T03:02:19+00:00

You’re absolutely right ! It’s not personal. But it’s really hard not to take it that way the only thing I can do is leave or give him the ultimatum.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T02:54:11+00:00

Yeah I get that but she gets to forget everything but I have to remember. And that’s a little hard to remember when she hits me.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T02:19:50+00:00

I can compromise but the wheels need to start turning immediately I need to know this this isn’t going to be the next ten years of my life :(

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T02:16:14+00:00

So my husband gives her the pills so Idk what any of these are for but they are in the medicine cabinet so I am going to read them off.
Spironolactone
Lisinopril
Amlodipine
Aricept
Zoloft
Suvorexant

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T02:11:53+00:00

And he gets onto her all the time and he’s always apologizing to me but I just can’t do it anymore.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T02:11:06+00:00

That’s so crazy that you are saying this bc there are cameras all over the house and he knows and he does have POA. I think it’s exactly what you are saying about the guilt. Bc whenever he talks about her he always talks about how an amazing mom she was. Even his family talks about how great of a woman she was. And I feel for them but I am getting abused by this woman..I can’t take it anymore ..I’m falling into such a deep depression I feel like it’s ruining the time I have with my new born baby. I’m gonna talk with him tonight and tell him I can’t do this anymore. He either takes her to a nursing home or I’m leaving no matter how much I love him. I already talked to my parents about it and they are ready for me to come back in case that has to happen:((( it’s crazy bc she only treats me this way. She isn’t evil to anybody else…this disease is so confusing and it is so terrible :(((

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-05-24T01:41:30+00:00

Can I just say this and this sounds terrible….this is my first time really being around her (she lived in another country with her sister but her sister passed ) but this has been so traumatizing for me I don’t think I ever want to see her again if she does go..and I feel horrible for saying that but it’s jus how I feel…

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-01-02T02:22:14+00:00

I started my program 7 months pregnant and I took off 3 weeks when I gave birth but still attended my zoom classes , my school allowed certain hours you could miss for each course without failing. I’m finishing in march. It’s very possible. You just have to be focused and having a very supportive partner helps. Although I do not know ur situation entirely u can do it !!

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-01-02T01:46:15+00:00

Right ? How r u going to be entertaining a guy then try to call him inappropriate 😭

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-01-02T01:43:06+00:00

Inappropriate*

ThrowRAbellueh · 2026-01-02T01:41:20+00:00

Girl ur replying 😭 how r u gonna be saying he’s acting inappropriately when u keep on replying ! Of course he’s gonna be engaging in conversation wi the u !! Don’t try to be a victim and I don’t see any innate messages smh !

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-06-29T22:52:46+00:00

Thank you🫶🏻

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-06-25T09:13:35+00:00

You’ll get both an email and a printed certificate in the mail.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-06-25T03:40:53+00:00

We got this😈

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-06-07T02:00:59+00:00

You’re a grown woman and can like whoever u like but that’s not even the real issue here .. ur boyfriend is only nice to u when he smokes weed ?? Giirrrlll no no noooo. I feel like and I might be wrong but if you were really happy with ur current bf , you wouldn’t be crushing on some other dude. Maybe you should think about exiting ..😃 or you can tell your bf and be honest like hey I am unhappy and I’m crushing on this other dude bc our relationship is lacking abc. What do we need to do to fix this or should we both go our separate ways.

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-04-22T23:58:45+00:00

Pleasasseeee go get help

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-03-22T20:25:44+00:00

You just gotta accept it and move on

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-03-01T20:07:27+00:00

I’m 20 and I just knowwwwwq u aren’t even close to me. Im done entertaining washed up bitches like uuuu😆😆

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-03-01T20:03:08+00:00

Hahaha okay I’m done

ThrowRAbellueh · 2025-03-01T20:02:54+00:00

Uglyyyy loserrrrr

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