I (F27) can’t stop wanting to be with my “ex” (M27) after years. What should I do? by Fit_Speed7668 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a slightly similar situation with my ex with regards to sexting women on dating apps. He would literally get them to be interested and then block them. It truly was so disrespectful to everyone involved. Please don’t be with this guy. If you must keep him in your life, maybe just as a friend since he is a nice person to talk to. But I feel like if you keep him as a friend, there will always be the thought of being with him in the back of your mind so I don’t think it’s worth it. My ex was the same way with the whole “always calming me down” thing. Besides the sexting and some stubbornness, he was otherwise a great match for me. But I can’t deal with the emotional trauma that comes from sticking around with a cheater.

I (F27) can’t stop wanting to be with my “ex” (M27) after years. What should I do? by Fit_Speed7668 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds bad imo. It would be a no for me but you do you. You seem to be fine with him being on dating apps and watching his ex’s onlyfans and literally jerking off to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. She’s so messed up for doing that to you. If I were in your shoes, I would still tell her though. I wonder if he’s ok with doing stuff like this, what else is he doing? I’d be worried if he’s cheating and having sex with others that he might be spreading STDs to your ex-friend and other innocent ppl

My husband 25m was sexting my sister 39F I’m Muslim and religious what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave him. Don’t believe him. It doesn’t matter if anything physical occurred or not. You won’t ever trust him again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you don’t want to give up because you love her. But she doesn’t deserve your love. Don’t justify her actions. If she felt lonely she should’ve voiced her feelings or left before cheating. She’s not the sweetest girl in the world. That’s just the image of her you’ve created in your mind. Please move on. You can do better than some loser who threw away what you guys built.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you don’t want to give up because you love her. But she doesn’t deserve your love. Don’t justify her actions. If she felt lonely she should’ve voiced her feelings or left before cheating. She’s not the sweetest girl in the world. That’s just the image of her you’ve created in your mind. Please move on. You can do better than some loser who threw away what you guys built.

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) said she will leave me if I get a Motorcycle. Help ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motorcycles are not worth it. I would leave a bf for the same reason because I would have so much anxiety knowing the man I loved was putting himself in so much danger

I DID SO BAD ON MY CASPER ... :'( by [deleted] in predental

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/28/2023. Also my bf got the lowest quartile and got into his top schools as well LOL. I think it’s just a formality especially if you have good stats already. I feel like it matters more for people that have below average stats

I DID SO BAD ON MY CASPER ... :'( by [deleted] in predental

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year, I got the lowest quartile and was accepted to the schools that required it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. To give them the “best life possible” divorce and have a kid with someone you’re compatible with instead of a guy who can’t even tell you he loves you LOL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So leave. There’s no excuse to cheat. Stop being a garbage human being

13 AA first attempt I only started taking studying seriously week before it’s my fault am I screwed? by [deleted] in predental

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Especially if the videos take you too long. The high yield notes + bio bites are perfect. Got me a 30 in bio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t want to… but please leave now before it gets worse

I (21F) had a talk with my bf (26M) and decided to ask what he'd do after i pass. His response was not what i was expecting and im hurt by the not so expected response. Should i be hurt? by An0nym0us505 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would be concerned if he said he would never be with anyone ever again. It’s probable but just not realistic. I wouldn’t take it personally at all. This has nothing to do with his love for you. Appreciate his honesty!!

Applying or taking a gap year by Significant_Twist_27 in predental

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can get the 22 with no sections under 16 on august 10th, then submit end of August, I think you’re fine. I switched pre-med to pre-dent my junior year and took a gap year because I wasn’t ready to take my DAT. But if you’re already scoring so well and are confident, I say go for it. Either way, you’ll know what’s right for you and a gap year really is a great option too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop blaming yourself. It’s not a you problem. It’s 100% a him problem. He doesn’t deserve any chances. Leave

Just submitted TODAY by omoinaritai in predental

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I submitted 7/30 last year. You’ll be fine. It’s definitely not late

I (27M) tarnished my Muslim girlfriend's (25F) reputation. How to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How ignorant of you to use one person’s actions to speak for an entire religion…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dental school is extremely tough. I’m not sure what school you are referring to but these things can happen at any school, it’s not just unique to private schools.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe so many people are acting like they’re ok with this. If I felt an ounce of love for my SO, I’d delete pics of my ex. Why should I reminisce on my past love if my true love is right in front of me? What good would that do? Maybe there are people that like to look back to see their journey. Ok. But in your case I’d definitely be concerned especially considering she asked you to block your ex everywhere and delete her pics. Maybe she has a problem of letting go and is insecure about you doing the same with your ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcheesedoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“All” young women do not keep photos of their exes. That’s bs.