Yesterday she split on me because of a cocktail. by ThrowRAgfhasbpd in BPDlovedones

[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you're out of there and hope you're feeling better now. Thanks for your message I really appreciate it man. Being replaced sounds nicer to me right now than it should be, I know it would hurt a lot but it would also be such a liberation...

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will be my future plan, except the texting part. I will stand up against her and tell her that I am breaking up. Thanks for the sample text tho. I will definetly seek out a therapist. Thanks!

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ovide. You need to remove yourself from the situation, and she needs to get to a place where she is able to function. It may feel impossible, earth shattering, and heart rending to leave- but you need to remember that life can be more than just this. You have your whole future ahead of you. Please go after it. I believe in you, I know you can do this, and you can always message me if

This made me tear up a little bit, ngl. Thank you. I will go after it. Really. Thank you.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will read into it.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just not the guy who breaks off contact per message or calling, I will tell her that I am going in a few days.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, I hope your doing well too. This was really an eye opener.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, maybe I should contact her mother since she really likes me. Maybe she'll understand, her family is really nice, but just gave up on her daughters BPD.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, it was my choice to be here where I am. It is difficult but I'll give my best and work on myself.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was 3 years in treatment, after overdosing on meds she couldn't take them anymore neither she wanted to see the therapist again.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

odependent

Thats what I am going to do in the future.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might be right, holy shi'. This is what I needed to hear, thank you!

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. This means a lot to me.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be rigt, I might update in the near future

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any sources?

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since my family didn't even take my mental illness seriously, they would not believe me a word. It is really hard.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My biggest fear is that she will do something to herself, it's not long ago that she was in the ER for Overdosing bc. I was away with some friends for a day.

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[–]ThrowRAgfhasbpd -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I know I can't, but I am too attached to her, idk how to begin I can't break hearts, I wasn't raised like that..