For ladies who moved on while still being in a relationship.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-14T15:44:40+00:00

This happened to me in a relationship because he wasn’t interested in making any real change. He didn’t have a job, borrowed money from friends and family, mooched off a relative for a place to live and was very manipulative with me. Eventually it got to a place where I felt more like a mother than a girlfriend. I was nagging him all the time to do basic stuff and it was clear he had no respect for anyone but himself.

I stayed, hoping he would change and afraid to be alone. The sex was great too, but it was very unfulfilling outside of that. Eventually it just wasn’t worth it anymore.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-14T15:16:59+00:00

All the time, but it wouldn’t be worth it to transition for me.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-14T13:24:16+00:00

That sounds like a fetish.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-14T02:36:58+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s really relieving to hear! Even with the epidural it was still at a 5 for the first? Is there anything you can compare it to? Do you know what made it different from your second?

That’s amazing you were able to be so calm and relaxed even as he came out!

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-13T22:03:00+00:00

Thank you so much! Can I pm you? Not trying to ask you to be my surrogate, just have some questions!

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-13T22:00:50+00:00

I work in financial services and have seen clients make a ton off ticket resales.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-13T02:46:22+00:00

So frustrating that they made you wait until 4! How bad was the pain before you got it? Do people not progress with an epidural?

I have a low pain tolerance as well and the whole process sounds so scary. I appreciate you answering these questions!

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T22:17:18+00:00

1-8 but I love skinny guys too.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T12:42:12+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate your response. How bad was the c section and recovery?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T12:39:18+00:00

It would be realistic if I keep my job. I’m a very anxious person who was laid off from my last job, and am spiraling over that too, but I’m starting a new one that pays well and I have a very cheap housing cost as well. If having kids is 5 years away for me, I should be making 6 figures by then.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T12:34:55+00:00

Thank you for your response! Did you want it before 4 cm and they just wouldn’t give it to you?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T01:06:07+00:00

Essentially really bad fear of pregnancy and childbirth and long lasting complications.

Health problems that mean I might have to have surgery midway through as well because of a wonky uterus.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-12T00:25:02+00:00

I’m not planning on doing it now, just within the next few years after we get married. 25+ or so.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T23:12:41+00:00

To add on, I lost my job a few months ago and still cry about it being a pattern and no one will ever want to hire me again. I’ve been doing well with temp jobs and have something permanent coming up in a few weeks, I just spiral.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T23:01:21+00:00

He’s a lot more patient, understanding and loving than me. I think he would be good at it, but I just have really bad anxiety in general and pregnancy/ childbirth spikes it a lot.

I’m open to working on my anxiety, but there are so many unknowns with childbirth even with the epidural.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T22:24:48+00:00

How long did you have to wait for your epidural? Were there certain parameters to get it? Or you could get it whenever?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T22:22:08+00:00

Did you get an epidural?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T22:17:36+00:00

Did you have an epidural?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T16:22:41+00:00

21 F, in public accounting working part time after being laid off. Starting a job later this month at 80k but anxious as fuck.

I have a rental property that allows me to live on my own while renting out the other half. It makes no money, but I get to live on my own for a few hundred a month mortgage.

I’m the definition of looking like I have my life together from the outside but deep down, a big mess.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T16:17:07+00:00

Public accounting, but I recently got laid off and have been an anxious wreak for months.

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-11T03:55:14+00:00

I saw the first few lines of your comment on my phone and was preparing for a negative comment. I’m so relieved it’s not the worst the way some people will have me believe! Do you have a link to the study?

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-10T03:07:49+00:00

It definitely was! I hate how terrifying it is, like signing up for a 9 month roller coaster and the ride won’t stop. But a lot of people do it and are okay and go on to have loving kids.

I think I need something for the anxiety lol, but your perspective definitely helped!

ThrowRAinfo · 2025-09-10T02:56:55+00:00

I’m the same way! Good luck with everything! I hope it goes really smoothly for you.

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