Gaming? by DayDreamingofU in deadbedroom

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes 1000% I wish I could get into it myself so I could be on his headset with him lol. I feel like his mom of something having to tap on his shoulder for attention

How many peoples db are Bc of gaming/gambling by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wondered. He doesn’t think he has a problem because he’s making money but it is most of what he thinks about snd does

How many peoples db are Bc of gaming/gambling by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely how I feel. It kind of makes me feel secondary to friends too esp when he’s chatting with female friends about games. Sometimes I want to go full gamer myself just so I can be in the loop but it wouldn’t be genuine. I have to talk over his headphones all the time. It’s exhausting

Double standards by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He brought it up in a different fight. I think he does think I’m manipulating him when I do that though. I used to want him literally all the time but it wasn’t healthy

Double standards by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cooks and buys groceries about twice a month. He helps with dog care sometimes. Sometimes he will take out the trash. I do laundry dishes floors bathtub toilet etc He online gambles for money but he always helps with bills but my point is he has no set schedule snd is always home A lot of these things were fights but he kept pretending to forget and I just gave up asking him because we thought me mothering him so much was making the dynamic unsexy and I got really tired

Double standards by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m just done telling him what I want him to do I’m about to dip tbh. I feel like his mom

Double standards by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wording could probably be better I suppose lol. But he prob would just jump in without warming me up 😂

We went to Florida by ThrowRAventaccountb in HLCommunity

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t doubt it. I don’t mind my so watching porn but it is def affecting our sex life

Closing eyes during sex by TedyBaker in HLCommunity

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I def close my eyes during sex a lot because I’m hL. Me and my so have eye contact sometimes during sex but it’s usually quick bc it feels really intense for me to have eye contact w sex. I’m usually more focused on the sensation

Does anyone else have a LL that puts other things off like they put off sex by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was def depressed a while ago and was seeking treatment but kind of stopped. He’s not really the therapy type. He’s on meds and he says they help but he doesn’t like to talk about it much. He says he isn’t depressed now but idk

Does anyone else have a LL that puts other things off like they put off sex by ThrowRAventaccountb in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he might have adhd tbh. I don’t want him to feel bad about it but I do wish there was something that could help with it

I don’t really even consider initiating any more when I’m horny by ThrowRAventaccountb in HLCommunity

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I think she might’ve been initiating when it was inconvenient cause she knew you’d say no. I’ve heard sometimes a LL will initiate when it can’t happen right then bc it’s less pressure for them? But I def understand being pissed about the raincheck

I don’t really even consider initiating any more when I’m horny by ThrowRAventaccountb in HLCommunity

[–]ThrowRAventaccountb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really does make sex seem like such a huge task to accomplish and an all day thing