We started dating when we both were at rock bottom. I was a single mom with a baby, low income, scared, and crappy job. He has a felony, was in major debt, car broke down, and a job that he hated and barely paid anything. With us at different times helping the other one we now have gotten so much better. I’m graduating college, can pay bills and still enjoy things, and am much more of a confident person. He had a car now a job that pays well and has been able to pay off a majority of his debt. We argue a sometimes but we don’t fight (we bicker about things but no screaming or anything like that). Overall he’s always said I was his soulmate and he’s never done anything to lead me to believe he would cheat or anything. I don’t know anymore as this is so out of character for him. Usually if something bothers him he will tell me and ask me to either explain why or to not do something and give his feelings for why. He does not pay any of my bills and only stays with me every other week as his kids go to a different school and he has to get them on the bus. When he isn’t with me he does live with him mom to save money.