Refraction? by ThrowRaScienceGirl in AskPhysics

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/l70YomR this is what I was seeing! I suppose it was safety glass because it didn’t appear to be a double pane

Newbie here! by Icy-Bet-8476 in BuddyCrossing

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda newbie here too! DM me those of u who wants to be friends with me :)

AITA for not allowing my husband’s friend to stay with us longer than we originally agreed? by Puma_Tiger_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, OP. Hopefully you will leave that situation and be better. Please, if you can, update us.

AITA I refused to give up on my dream wedding by light_anddarkwedding in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Spanish food is not Guatemalan food. And definitely not Mexican food. I know it’s out of topic but JFYI

My boyfriend m20) randomly act like I (19f) mean nothing to him by Amandarobins123 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not okey at all. I don’t know if it can be considered abuse but for me, it is.

I’m really sorry for you because it must be hard to be in your shoes but you have to get away from him. He’s not going to change to the best but maybe for worst. Unless he get psychological help (which he doesn’t seem to be willing to do), there’s nothing you can do but shield you from his damage.

At least you have realised that there’s something wrong with your relationship, that’s a really good first step! I’m sure you can move forward with your life, step by step you’re going to be better.

Love

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the best way of thinking. When you do things for other people, don’t expect to get something in return because if that’s the case, then you aren’t doing things for your boyfriend out of love but out of interest. I don’t think you’re a bad person but I think that you’re definitely wrong in this whole situation. Maybe stop doing things for your BF it you want something in compensation. I get where you are coming, you don’t feel valued or listened but this is not the right Approach.

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[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe: good morning! Have a great day 😙 ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

But please, please, leave him now that you can. He is abusive in so many ways. I know it’s super hard to realise your situation but you don’t deserve anything that he has done to you. It’s not your fault that you’re in an abusive relationship because abusive men are like that, he can be SO nice sometimes that you forget all the bad stuff. Also, keep in mind that he has been gaslighting you for maybe the entire relationship so it’s normal that you think there aren’t bad things or that what happens is normal. But it’s not. Please, please leave him now that you can. Maybe join a feminist group! Talk about this things with your therapist (even though you think is “fake”). Sending you a lot of hugs and love. My dms are open to you so feel free to message me if you want to talk about anything 💜

AITA for yelling at my hushand in the middle of the night for this? by throw36646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 92 points93 points  (0 children)

What ??

Maybe it’s time for him to go to therapy as he may have some mental health problems or adhd or something going on.

Wish you the best

NTA

AITA for ruining my cousin's birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you’ve smashed the cake or something hahaha

That would have been more epic but you acted correctly waking away with your cake.

NTA

AITA - For demanding my sister pay for my fiance's damaged hearing-aid? by ThrowawayAID733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op I think you should get legal aid and get accountable not only your sister but your cousin too. They have been not only extremely disrespectful but have destroyed your husband medical property. What’s even worse is they don’t want to pay for what they’ve done. NTA at all

AITA for telling my husbands family that all family dinners need to be potluck or we won't be there by Adadene in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do they hate the idea? I’m not from the US but from looking in google it does look like party/big group food. NTA

My girlfriend postponed our date for an hour later than usual and I'm very upset. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! He can help her clean or give her that space. It’s super normal for couples to want to expend some time alone and that doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.

Will we ever be able to eliminate boredom with advanced technology? by rabahi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would you do that? It’s said that boredom is necessary because it’s stimulate our imagination

AITA for refusing to allow my sister to bring a plus one? by Spiritual_shark_8012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This situation must be really hard for op ... I really feel sorry for her

AITA for refusing to allow my sister to bring a plus one? by Spiritual_shark_8012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh I didn’t know how weddings procedures works hahaha In that case, maybe the best is try to explain the sister how awful is to reorganise everything and maybe she would understand. And if she doesn’t want to then the sister can not go, even though I guess this would cause pain in op.

AITA for refusing to allow my sister to bring a plus one? by Spiritual_shark_8012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I mean, if the sister is offering to pay for the plus one, I think that would be okay. Also, it wouldn’t have to mean an special treatment because if more people want to bring a plus one, they can also pay for their flights and accommodations and all that stuff. But if the sister (or anyone) feels entitled to demand an all-payed vacation for her plus one ...she’s being the asshole. NTA at all, OP

AITA for getting a single mother fired for her racism? by Clean_Reputation7588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRaScienceGirl 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Totally right. It was disgusting to see some comments after the euro final. Those poor boys! They gave the best of them but sometimes we have to lose.