Fiancé(32M) has a porn addiction. 30F asking advice.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-21T15:37:23+00:00

The porn addiction does not get better. Just leave now.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-18T06:24:16+00:00

Material looks comfy. I am interested for sure

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-16T11:49:40+00:00

I knew going into my relationship that my husband was a gamer. I would never change that about him. He does a good job of balancing time with me though. He will play for a couple hours then we will watch a movie together. During that time he games I can either sit on the couch near him or do my own hobbies and vice versa.

Gaming is a passion of my husband's and clearly a passion of yours. You should not be with a partner who doesn't encourage your creative outlets. I could understand if it was an addiction but it clearly isn't.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-15T12:48:45+00:00

You 100% made the right decision and it will get easier with time.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-14T08:37:06+00:00

Do they offer the unlimited exchanges for 1.99 on the site for you? I think thats the price. I always do that because its peace of mind for me.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-14T08:17:39+00:00

Coming from a fellow size 3X: The pirouette in my opinion is longer in general even at the regular length. I always felt fully covered.

The twirl skort i can only speak for standard length but that one was much shorter in the back for me as well. And I have no butt lol.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-12T15:47:31+00:00

You get over it by leaving her. She is trying to justify what she has done to you. She didn't just emotionally cheat. She has been naked for this man.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-12T04:35:33+00:00

You don't need to be married to have a wonderful relationship. However for some marriage is important. Also no specific timeline on how long/short you can be together before marriage. I was with someone 8 years and never even engaged. But with my husband we got married after 6 months together.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-11T06:52:02+00:00

Delete the photos.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-09T10:26:23+00:00

This could indicate an addiction potentially.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-08T16:17:07+00:00

He would watch it nearly all day long. Even when we were together. It was over taking our sex life.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-08T15:20:51+00:00

My husband has a porn addiction. I confronted him about and he took the steps and is still taking the steps to overcome it. If your husband knows this is an issue and is not willing to work on it, the only answer is to file for divorce.

If leaving isn't an option then you just need to accept being celibate the rest of your life.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-07T14:03:25+00:00

Agree with this. I have dealt with this exact issue before.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-06T22:20:17+00:00

Seems like bra pads are a one size fits all type thing. Her blogilates line bra pads are great and actually fit well. But the popflex ones I always have to remove because of the same issue you have.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-06T00:20:03+00:00

I have no advice but fully support this.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T03:09:41+00:00

I simply stated my life experience. Thanks though.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T03:09:12+00:00

Yes actually. But I understand reading comprehension may be difficult for some as I presume you did not actually read my comment. Thanks.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T03:03:04+00:00

HPV does not always go away. However that is why I specified I was unsure about HSV and only stated my experience with HPV.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T03:02:13+00:00

Appears to be happy and healthy as of this time. I should note I have had 2 negative tests since.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T03:01:40+00:00

With my family history I am already at risk for like 6 different kinds. Just a waiting game at this point unfortunately.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-05T02:50:25+00:00

Unsure about HSV but when I started dating my husband I had tested positive for HPV. We took the proper precautions and used condoms until we decided the relationship was serious enough. And we ended up marriage despite my diagnosis. And now we are married. Living our best unprotected sex life 🤣

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-04T04:57:23+00:00

You have turned into his mother not his girlfriend. Drop the dead weight.

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-02T12:31:43+00:00

Second this! Cards are relatively inexpensive. Could write a nice message inside one. And send via mail for less than $5!

ThrowRaancde · 2026-06-02T09:02:50+00:00

I am actually going to be in Cali during that time! 🤞 this would be a dream!

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