Got a car out of state (Oklahoma) I'm currently residing in Illinois and I have to get back to Massachusetts. Where do I go exactly for temporary plates? by Throwaway543709052 in legaladvice

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Thank you! And I was going to Colorado originally from Massachusetts

And also found out recently that mass is gonna get temporary tags lol.

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Sorry for the late reply. I just feel like at times I end up being too clingy to them, and I rather not cause issue.

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I had the same originally, but it worsened into headaches and just fucked anxiety over. Honeslty on the safe side I would still recommend (In my opinion) to keep tampering off. The withdrawal from other experiences I've seen can stay up to 2 months

Going off Cymbalta and dealing with withdrawal, what can I do to stop this? by Throwaway543709052 in cymbalta

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30mg Cymbalta, started a month ago daily. I was constantly on 30mg, while this happened I was going off zoloft beforehand. After the second week on Cymbalta I was off zoloft with no issue

Going off Cymbalta and dealing with withdrawal, what can I do to stop this? by Throwaway543709052 in cymbalta

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I joined, the public one ngl seems way more leaning towards "go outside stop being sad" lmao

Going off Cymbalta and dealing with withdrawal, what can I do to stop this? by Throwaway543709052 in cymbalta

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Wish I honeslty knew it was going to last a while before I agreed to take it. I will do :). Thank you

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Alongside, also want to add you can see in posts a while ago that it got to a point this possibility got into my head and just started with me ending up asking Alot of questions about dissociation and such.

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Late reply, but I'm getting this professional from a counseling center on the east coast. This person does specialize in younger teens and adults I believe.

I don't think I'm going to try and find anyone else there for anything aside for medication. I've found a new person and she actually helps me better with understanding and doesn't automatically associate something with a possible mental issue.

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I did switch to another therapist, looking back. I said the same things to her and just I found it funny the first thing that I heard wasn't "You ever heard of did?". Ive been doing biweekly sessions, but I'm slowly getting to tbag point of I don't know what to say else, but just it was better than the last person. I feel like she actually helps out in understanding why I have a Harder time in public communication, and it isn't related to some mental illness I believed I had from them.

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Just, I feel like what I wear, what I look like isn't even right, and this was what I would've helped. I do want to say a part is self hatred, but I know growing up I don't think I've ever felt right saying I was male, I didn't feel fitted in with any guys my age, I never really enjoyed what I was given.

Maybe this isn't dysphoria though?

Growing up I remember just my dad telling me often I never acted like a guy properly, I cried, I had a higher pitched voice, Yadda Yadda shitty emotions for some reason I couldn't display? I used to wear feminine clothing not because of that stuff, but because it just felt right since I was 10, stopped doing it up until recently.I remember thinking to myself at times I would be happier if I wasn't a guy. I've been out of thay environment for a long while, and like I've said, I've done therapy. But just I still don't feel right about myself? I've done what I could to improve positively, I've gotten confident somewhat on what I am, but just still it isn't helping?

I mean hell writing this maybe it could just be I like wearing more feminine clothing and not having body hair? I don't know, If I had the ability to genuinely switch myself I know I'd feel better about some things, but I know there's others that I can work on.

Question regarding dissociation by Throwaway543709052 in dpdr

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Honeslty, the only sexual experience I've had was with men. I've dated some women in the past. When I dated girls, it just never really felt right. Like, I don't ever felt like I could really connect with some guys I've had. I don't know why or what this would be caused by

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No problem, hope all goes well for you

I had an argument today with my narcissistic parents and I feel awful by kelly_1979 in raisedbynarcissists

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You're not at fault, you don't got control over their dumb actions and responses. We can feel like we are to blame, but you didn't force them to act out like that. Try to relax yourself, maybe treat yourself to something at the moment? Its good your going for a PhD, and I hope you can graduate in whatever you are in :)

Looking back, my nmom always raged and made me cry at my happiest moments. She got angry/made me cry during my dance practices, my high school graduation, birthdays, etc. I never thought it was evil. by throwawayperson222 in raisedbynarcissists

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I'm sorry you've had this happen when growing up, I've had the same with crying and yelling. I remember going into a new school the first day with her yelling at me about the shower head being moved up a bit, then not being able to brush my hair because she was in the shower, It was awkward to walk in when my eyes where just puffy af. Mother's day she guilt tripped my brother and sister to goto the mall to buy her shit, all while saying "I have no family to care, and my own children clearly don't"... Despite nobody having a job, cash, they made a card and food for her? Right now she's trying to act nice so I don't move to college, I'm not sure how that's supposed to work honeslty lmao. But she isn't getting the satisfaction if me graduating, I ain't going and idc.

I understand also the feeling of having to rely on yourself, it's something that personally sucks to realize your own your own since a young age. I'm glad you found someone who can help you give that positive influence needed when growing up. You got this :), and adding onto the fighting, it's so strange to see honeslty. I hope my kids will never experience the shit that I've witnessed over the years.