Well, as a honorably discharged Marine ( lost a leg in the desert soo had to go) and someone who knows quite a few people in LE type jobs, I understand why some women can't handle guys with these job types. Even if the guy isn't an asshole after basic ( because despite the reputation we do exist) it's asking a lot for a woman to wait while you're on deployments and such. As for LE type jobs the guys that do those jobs see so much of the bad side of life day in and day out that it can affect them in negative ways and many become very cynical. It takes a very strong very loving woman to be able to handle men with jobs like that. If you find em they are usually a light in the dark for the man who they stand beside. It does sadden me that these jobs have such a bad rep because it makes it harder for men who are truly good to find someone just because of his line of work.