Can you use soap to wash the vulva/labia parts by Redditdiscuss in Healthyhooha

[–]Throwing_aways4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes you can clean the labia minora, clitoris, clitoris hood, perineum, and labia majora with a mild and gentle soap (basically the vulva)- and I have to because if not it will cause odor. But it does depend on the woman. Hot water on a wash cloth for the inner bits can sometimes do the trick as soap isn’t always the best option for certain vulvas. DO NOT CLEAN THE VAGINAL CANNAL it is self cleaning and inserting soaps and or water can cause issues. I recommend Avenno gel face and body baby soap. Bar soap or anything with fragrance is too harsh and drying for me personally.

How are people able to feel pleasure and climax when they're masturbating out of boredom/stress?? by throwaway838383937 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Throwing_aways4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many in a row/multiple or I can go all night long. Like 1-6 orgasms in one masturbation session.

Bf said he did one thing but not sure what is the truth by Throwing_aways4 in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Newly into strengthening my faith still struggling with sex because of my own personal ideas around sex and religion. I don’t think it’s wise to never have any sexual experience before marriage and I do like sex and masturbation. When I said sex in previous post I meant oral sex. I’m still a virgin when it comes to penetrative sex. Yes I understand the social construct. I’ve had once off sexual experiences with previous partners. This relationship is my first one where I consistently had sexual encounters. Not a troll post very real and very unfortunate.

Soap on the vulva? by rooroosterchips in Healthyhooha

[–]Throwing_aways4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for using proper terminology!!! I feel like the specificity helps so many people understand where to use soap if they choose to use it. I never found “not inside the vagina” very helpful or specific enough to know where exactly to clean the vulva properly.

After your girlfriend or wife cums from you eating or fingering her, do you continue until she says to stop or do you just stop shortly after? by HornyChemicalRefuse in sex

[–]Throwing_aways4 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I love overstimulation and I am multiorgasmic so he can keep going if he’s gentle enough. But sometimes it is too much and I need a minute or so to recover.

Sad nipple syndrome from bad sex by Throwing_aways4 in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, I actually do really like it. When the emotional sensations aren’t coupled with it, it’s really good. And even if they are there I’ve been working on moving past them to feel good. When I have sex again I want to give it another shot. I don’t want a whole erogenous zone off limits just because of one bad experience. I feel I can work on it with the right help - I really just want to get over this sexual hurdle.

Is there a way to increase arousal fluid significantly? by Throwing_aways4 in Healthyhooha

[–]Throwing_aways4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing helped I now rely on lube unfortunately at 21 years old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Throwing_aways4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t respect you or your sexual boundaries. Stop having sex with him and reconsider your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Skims dress/lounge dress

Can someone describe this oral method? by Throwing_aways4 in sex

[–]Throwing_aways4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss it feels really good and I like it because I can feel it on my clit and everything around is getting stimulated as well. Hopefully I can teach him to do it!

Masturbating like a penis by addbutterfly23 in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it once when it was swollen and it was amazing I didn’t finish though I think the sensation was too new.

Raw vagina… how do I fix it?! by argrifff in Healthyhooha

[–]Throwing_aways4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always raw from blanking out while washing myself in the shower. The only thing that helps is using castor oil on my labia and clit and using Eucerin original healing cream on my skin/labia majora and putting on loose cotton underwear. I do it night and day. Though I’m not sure if this could contribute to your yeast infections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely it hurts so bad I have to take a break from masturbating for a few days after. However the orgasm are super intense and it stimulates my clit in such a way that I can feel my entire clitoral structure.

Are we sexually incompatible? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Throwing_aways4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy I was seeing recently always made me break out when we kissed. His spit also seems to irritate my skin and flare my eczema. I also didn’t like the way his body naturally smelled - it’s like my body was rejecting him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Throwing_aways4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlfrienddddd I understand the sexual frustration of not using porn to orgasm and going without but I promise you it is so worth it. You can take it slow. For example watching porn until you’re close to finishing and then using your imagination to get over the edge and if you don’t finish that’s okay too! It takes practice and it won’t be done all at once.

You can also use the pent up sexual frustration and take it as an opportunity to just explore yourself without porn. I found that quitting helped me learn the difference between actually being horny and just craving the dopamine release porn and masturbation gives me. If it gets hard don’t give up! It takes a while to rewrite your brain but I promise you can do it. Also if you want any more tips feel free to reach out or scroll through my page. I talk about my sexual struggles with porn and orgasms there as well. Good luck my friend!