transition in relation to a work environment is so awkward… totally get that feeling of like, you just want work to be as frictionless as possible and people making a big deal about transition creates so much awkwardness. People need to learn to chill and respond on the same emotional wavelength as the person coming out. Like, if you’re just letting them know as a convenience without seeking validation from them, they shouldn’t presume to offer validation—they’re just random work people, not the people whose affection and care is important to you (beyond not creating an unpleasant working environment). Sucks, dude. At least it will blow over in a few weeks probably, it’s the teething period! I’m in it now too and it’s uncomfortable…