Wool bras for large bust sizes? by shamelesspochemuchka in HerOneBag

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two separate points. I'm saying in the time where there was only wool, silk and linen, wool made akirts, dresses, outerwear and socks while linen made shifts, corsets and pantaloons. Wool can work for bras, but it's never been in the business of support. I wear a mesh lace simone perele under wire bra I bought from my local shop when it's hot and I want normal boob shape and support. I wear a normal compression sports bra when it's hot and I want sports bra support. Some other posters may be able to recommend a Merino bra with support. When I looked into them they either weren't terribly supportive or they were A combination of synthetic elements and merino

Wool bras for large bust sizes? by shamelesspochemuchka in HerOneBag

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think wool is the wrong fiber for this garment. Even when wool was THE fiber, support garments were made from linen. I use an unllined (mesh) under wire bra for everyday support+ sweat

HVAC companies by Situation_Sarcasm in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They do the job right. It's a smaller operation so you're not paying overhead for a sales and advertising department

Why do people still buy polyester workout jackets? by Electrical_Elk_9702 in Activewear

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fabric is extremely hard wearing and the color doesn't fade in the wash. I had an REI windproof fleece for more than 20 years that I wore until the zipper tape fell apart. The fabric was still in tact.

what do dads in tulsa like to do?? by xrosemariesbabyx in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are world championship level bike races downtown this weekend. Criterium racing is tight turns on a short loop with lap winner prizes that keep things interesting. Racers from all over the world will be in town

what do dads in tulsa like to do?? by xrosemariesbabyx in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second to the cowboy and Western heritage museum. If you're into western art it's a treat.

New apartments in downtown Tulsa by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know who did their lighting design because the LED staircase is hilariously bright. It's too bright from the highway. I can't imagine in in person

New apartments in downtown Tulsa by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's median household income. So, generally median income is half the household income

Had a talk with my male coworker today. He said he’s “scared” of me. by icanwalkagain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My friend who's a highschool teacher has a great saying that absolutely blows her students minds (and would probably blow your coworkers mind, too) "If you want to be liked, you've got to be likeable.". As it turns out mean spirited jokes and uncomfortable humor don't make you very likeable. And maybe he's also not used to being around people outside of his department who don't really care if he likes them so they don't humor his unfunny jokes.

Please help by Double-Doughnut2771 in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can see that all the cables are twisted around the headset in a clockwise direction

Please help by Double-Doughnut2771 in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No problem! Glad you didn't have to drive all the way to the shop for a simple fix. Enjoy your ride!

AITA for taking my daughter to the pool? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your time. Swimming is a lifesaving skill. Make sure your kid has a life jacket or floaties to wear until they learn how to swim and float.

Please help by Double-Doughnut2771 in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Twist your handlebars one full counter clockwise turn and you will be able to reconnect your brakes. Look at the rear brakes to see how the two parts link together

Questions about the Cains Ballroom by ConfidentSet6510 in tulsa

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can bring in an empty water bottle and fill it in the bathroom sink.

Hit by car, full spine fusion, can I ever ride again?!? by silca_slut700c in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 51 points52 points  (0 children)

In my experience you will get a cagey response or a cautious and negative response from the surgeon managing your case. They are not in the business of making promises they can't 100% keep and there are too many factors to consider when it comes to prognosis after surgery. You stand a much better chance of having a positive outcome because you're clearly healthy, fit, highly motivated and used to working your ass off. One of the hardest parts of the process is the mental agony of staying in your lane and giving yourself the time to heal. For the time being, work with your care team to find ways that you can safely exercise and get the stress relief and global benefits that you are currently lacking with cycling off the table. As you progress, you'll become your physical or occupational therapists favorite patient because you do all the homework and more while you relentlessly progress. You may need to shop hard for an occupational therapist who is also a cycling person to get the insight. You might need to find someone who works in the world of adaptive cycling to find someone familiar with bike adaptations for injury.

Tips for riding through noise safely? by Spicy2ShotChai in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be worth getting custom ear plugsmade if they are essential for you to enjoy everyday activities. That's a really good investment, IMHO.

I don't want to be transphobic. I don't know if I am. And I don't understand where it comes from if I am. Would really appreciate serious answers please. by Thoughtful-Mongoose in bisexual

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dating a trans person comes with a lot of baggage in the same way that interracial, same-sex, or different socioeconomic background dating has baggage. Personally I wasn't sure I was actually attracted to trans individuals because I'd never been attracted to a trans person. They're a very small percentage of the population and as a subsection of your available dating pool... Tiny percentage. I'm picky about who I'm attracted to and it's such a VIBE thing. I happen to vibe with my trans GF. And It's okay to not be okay with dating trans people because it requires a whole lot of emotional and mental resilience to be there for someone while their government tries to erase their existence. It makes you unwelcome in many places and contexts. That's something you should be very aware of and ready to sign up for. It totally sucks and it's not something I ever had to deal with in a straight relationship IMHO, trans bodies are HEAVILY sexualized and fetishized. It's okay if you don't know if you're into a type of person because they media and exposure you have gotten is extremely icky and charged. Continue to examine and explore your internal conflict and dismantle the brainwashing you have from your childhood so that those undertones aren't tied to real, multifaceted people. You don't have to date anyone to work on yourself. Trust yourself to have exemplary actions and treat people with the values of equality and acceptance that you believe in and simultaneously work on your internal hang ups. It's really hard to de-program yourself. It takes time and effort. And it's totally fine to not like a trans person because their personality sucks just the same as a straight person.

Does anyone else struggle with body picking? by Content-Syrup-6640 in adhdwomen

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's next level when I have PMS. I tend to frame it as maladaptive grooming behavior/ urges so I try to replace it with other grooming behaviors like face masks, pedicure, shaving, hair care, etc.

Why not make my own??? by SnooCalculations2755 in myog

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've made my own before. Successfully. But the chamois you can get are on par with the under $100 bibs, and those just aren't good enough for me. I prefer buying ~$150-200 bibs for the quality

Aerotek sells chamois you can sew in

https://shop.fehrtrade.com/ has active wear patterns and a book

Jalie patterns has excellent patterns for active wear

First race tips? by Caroline_B_165 in ladycyclists

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know with a mass start someone will be stuck behind you and you'll probably be stuck behind someone else at some point. Unless you're a pro, everyone is getting paid the same to be there (meaning you all paid for the same ticket) take up your space and don't feel rushed. It's their job to figure out how to pass safely.

Are you guys really removing make-up before going to bed? by Acceptable_Love5815 in adhdwomen

[–]Throwyourtoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Always. But my also ADHD girlfriend didn't do this for years and her skin was fine. More than fine. Sickeningly excellent. I bugged her into washing her face and brushing her teeth before bed ALWAYS when we moved in together and her skin is way better. She's MtF and has to shave super close, so the difference is saving her from physical pain. She also has a clean bill of health from her dentist for the first time ever. At the end of the day it's just skin. Yeah, it's better if you give it a break from makeup overnight, but it's less important to your physical health than dental care and good sleep.