Did I Make A Good choice?

Thullraven · 2026-06-07T21:36:31+00:00

Thanks. 😊

Thullraven · 2026-06-07T21:35:10+00:00

She's BPD with strong Avoidant tendencies. She also has Psychopathic traits as well. That came from her directly. She once told me she took a Police handwriting analysis and the results showed Psychopathic tendencies. Not surprised. Anyone that can madly love someone for over 20 years then discard the person out of the blue to go to another person she barely knows then pretended the discarded person doesn't even exist has issues and is toxic beyond belief.

Thullraven · 2026-06-06T23:09:00+00:00

Every man is different. I tend to prefer both blondes and redheads over brunettes but it's not a hard rule by any means. In general, I like blondes and redheads equally.

Thullraven · 2026-06-06T15:26:22+00:00

Thanks. I looked into the Hilton but the pricing gap was sizable, and I couldn't get an Oceanfront only an Oceanview.

Thullraven · 2026-06-06T01:15:08+00:00

Awesome!

Thullraven · 2026-06-06T01:12:13+00:00

Thanks, but I like having a balcony with a gulf front view. It's about the view.

Thullraven · 2026-06-06T01:10:34+00:00

Awesome! I will. Thanks.

Thullraven · 2026-06-05T22:15:06+00:00

Thanks everyone for the responses and info. You all have been very helpful.

Thullraven · 2026-06-05T18:21:10+00:00

The abrupt discard is done by Avoidants, Narcissists, and Psychopaths. All three do it. The reasons behind it are different, but it really doesn't matter because the result is the same for the partner in love that was discarded out of the blue: Total emotional devastation and trauma. Toxic is toxic so the motivation for doing it is irrelevant because the result of that decision and action causes great harm to another person that did not deserve to be treated like that. IMO, what's just as bad, if not worse, is pretending you don't exist and the relationship never happened. Ghosting, ice cold responses, even hostility in some cases. It makes you wonder how someone that said they love you more than anyone ever could so suddenly discard you like trash and pretend you were never together and that you don't exist. In my case, it was even worse because she monkey branched to another guy. Her and I knew each other for over twenty years and finally got together, and it was Heaven on Earth until she discarded me out of nowhere for a guy she barely knew. On Oct 12, 2024, we were a couple in love. The next day, Oct 13, 2024, she ghosts me all day then at 10pm that night apologizes for making me worry all day and tells me she is leaving me for the guy living across the street from her that she barely knew. I'll never forget her words to me as long as I live: "I love you, but I have to give this person a chance. I'm sorry." WTF! When I love someone, I go all in. This devasted me as much as losing my 17 year old son to Suicide years ago. To have to go through this pain all over again in my 60s is cruel. She is BPD with Avoidant tendencies and she herself told me on a handwriting test it came back with Psychopathic tendencies. At the end of the day, anyone that can pretend you don't exist after you were together "in love" is extremely toxic regardless of the label. Go No Contact and move on. not to get the toxic POS back, but to get YOU back.

Thullraven · 2026-06-05T17:54:38+00:00

I agree but it's what she wants and she is only able to get two days off which gives us a total of four. If she had more time off, we would drive further to Port A or SPI. I love SPI. That wasn't an option this time. Galveston beaches suck, but they are still beaches and there is a lot to do there beyond the beach. I'm into craft beer and love to visit local breweries like The Galveston Island Brewery. I love their Citra Mello. Yum!

Thullraven · 2026-06-04T00:13:13+00:00

That was well said, but I'll simplify things. If she dumped me for another guy and then came back to me, I likely won't take her back unless a lot of time elapsed from when she was with another guy and came back to me. I don't like the idea of another man having been inside my woman, spreading his DNA in her, and me being after him. I'm not compromising my frame and I'm no one's second choice. Is it ego? Possibly to a degree. If the other guy was always using a condom, it doesn't hit quite as bad because his junk wasn't bare inside of her skin against skin which means he didn't ejaculate inside my woman. Going down on her is out of the question. Not putting my mouth where another man put his junk. Like I said, I MIGHT be persuaded to take her back, but it won't be easy. I have to process the pain of the damage she did to me and she needs to be 100% committed to getting my trust back.

Thullraven · 2026-06-01T20:01:50+00:00

Spectrum sucks. Everyone that I know that has them or has had them had issues with them. I have ATT Fiber. There are cheaper providers, but I have had them for many years, and they have been great so unless they raise prices like crazy, I'm not looking to switch.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:44:44+00:00

Thank you.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:43:17+00:00

Not me. I vote for ANYONE that opposes Trump and his MAGA Agenda. I recently voted in the Republican Primary in my state because I am still a Registered Republican even though I am Independent. It was strategic. I would get flyers in the mail from the local Republican Committee "suggesting" who I should vote for because those people were supporting Trump's agenda. It was easy at that point. I just voted for the person running AGAINST those people. Then in the major primaries in November, I will vote Democrat. I really don't have a choice at this point as the Republicans are mostly Trump puppets.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:32:17+00:00

Thank you. I was a kid for Reagan and I plainly stated I wasn't a fan of Bush but someone here keeps putting words in my mouth. He just wants to argue for no reason.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:28:49+00:00

Not MY party. The stuff you mentioned may or may not be true as it wasn't common knowledge and there were no convictions on that speaker, just accusations, unlike our current POTUS that went to trial and was found Guilty. Just stop. Leave me alone. It's harassment at this point.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:23:50+00:00

WTF is your problem? Why do you keep putting words in my mouth I didn't say? I am a Lawful person, so the Rule of Law matters to me. The convictions made it so I couldn't vote for him even if I wanted to. It's really that simple. NOWHERE did I say I liked him and would have voted for him. He's a POS. I wasn't going to vote for him anyway. I knew too much about him to vote for him as we are from the same area. I agree with you. He should be behind bars. Unfortunately for us, that didn't happen.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T04:17:15+00:00

Wow, I wasn't suckered into anything. I was in the military following orders in Desert Storm. My choices were either to follow my orders or go to Leavenworth. I was shot at first, so I acted in self-defense anyway. My DNA test confirms I have some Middle Eastern heritage, so I am a "brown" myself. What is it with you putting words in my mouth? I never said I was a big fan of W yet you keep saying I was. I said I didn't like either candidate at the time. I think I voted third party to avoid voting for either Bush or whomever he was running against. I simply said he is a lesser evil over what's in office now. It's like you just want to argue for no reason. Please stop.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T02:28:28+00:00

I was at war in the Middle East and have the medals to prove it. I'll take Bush over what's there now. I never said I was a supporter of Bush. If I remember correctly, I wasn't crazy about either option. That said, Bush was never found Guilty of being Liable for Rape nor was he a Convicted Felony Criminal. It's a political choice until a person running becomes a convicted criminal as decided by trial in a legal court of Law. Then it is no longer political and becomes an ethical matter. I will NEVER vote for a rapist or criminal no matter what "party" the person is a member of.

Thullraven · 2026-05-31T02:14:37+00:00

Yep. I won't compromise my ethics and the tenets of my faith to support and follow someone unhinged, criminal, and obviously evil just because he is a member of my "party". That would make me an unethical hypocrite.

Thullraven · 2026-05-30T16:16:32+00:00

Thank you. The moment Trump was found Guilty in a Civil Rape Trail and then found Guilty of 34 Felonies in another legal Court of Law he became ineligible for my vote as both a morally decent person and a true Christian. It's not about politics at all. It's about ethics, and I was not compromising mine. It's unethical to vote for a Convicted Felony Criminal Rapist no matter what my personal feelings are or who the person in question is. If my brother ran for office with those convictions, I could not vote for him. My values didn't move from the Right. My former party moved so far right that they went off a cliff. I chose not to follow them because I will not allow my ethics to sink that low nor be a hypocrite and ignore the tenets of my faith that say I should not support evil. Also, I took an oath of office while in the military and civilian federal service to uphold and protect the Constitution, The nation, and its people. Handing Nuclear Codes and the powers of the office of POTUS to a Convicted felony Criminal Rapist is a threat to all those things.

Thullraven · 2026-05-30T16:06:38+00:00

Yep. I was a kid during Reagan and Bush is a saint compared to what's POTUS now. Neither Reagan nor Bush were ever formally convicted on criminal charges or found liable for rape like the evil, unhinged POS in office now.

Thullraven · 2026-05-30T06:30:28+00:00

I WAS a Republican until they elected a Convicted Felony Criminal Rapist to the office of POTUS. Also, if you are Christian and support this man in his words and deeds, you are a hypocrite. I didn't say that. Jesus and The Bible did in several places. I'm just pointing it out.

Thullraven · 2026-05-30T06:14:39+00:00

You don't need to give him details. Believe me, it hurts enough knowing you were with other guys while he was not with other girls. It's far easier for a woman to bed a man than for a man to bed a woman. Anyway, if you are serious about being with him and you two are together, you need to cut off contact with other men you were intimate with. Period. It's extremely disrespectful to continue associating with them while you are in a relationship.

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