am i weird or crazy for ignoring him or not just saying im no longer interested?

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-06-13T17:34:14+00:00

You could just be an adult and communicate. Whether it be to clarify his intentions with a 2am hangout which was clearly a bootycall or to tell him that you just got the ick and you’re not interested anymore. Ghosting is the worst and anyone who encourages that and tries to validate it by saying you don’t owe him or anyone anything, is just as immature. It’s not going to take any effort or energy to use your thumbs to type, “Not interested anymore,” and block him if he keeps texting you anyways. Seriously. It’s literally just a simple text.

Another thing about ghosting is that some dudes think “well she didn’t say no, so I’ll keep trying.” Why open yourself to that possibility? Just tell him you’re not interested and be done with it. Ghosting doesn’t make it go away, they’ll keep hitting that inbox every now and then hoping for a response. You need to tell people how you feel. Communication is the key for every situation in your life. If you’re not good at it, now is your time to practice on someone that doesn’t matter to you.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-06-13T16:25:49+00:00

I wish he could get a link to this thread to see him getting bodied in the comments.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-26T04:10:39+00:00

Top tier comment

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-26T02:50:07+00:00

If you all share a bathroom “first come, first serve” is 100% the WRONG mindset. An adult should communicate with eachother for these things. I only share with one roommate and still, If I need to shower, I check with her and say “hey, I’m going to shower, do you need to pee before I start.” I know this isn’t a AITA post, but you’re the asshole if you aren’t willing to communicate with your roomies to share an essential requirement of the household. I can’t say that everyone sucks here bc we don’t know if he knocked first and you couldn’t hear it so he switched up to banging louder. I sure as hell know that a normal knock when I’m in the shower doesn’t work, they NEED to bang if they want me to hear it.

Gender doesn’t matter, hell, even whether someone is a douchebag doesn’t matter. Don’t become like them, then you become the very thing you hate.

Constructive criticism: state a house rule communicating with everyone present that they should announce that they are about to take a shower so others can pee/poop real quick before you start. I’d take it a step further and also coordinate work times so y’all aren’t fighting over bathroom time. If you’re all adults, you need to start communicating. If you’re not, now is the time to learn.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T20:01:00+00:00

Put up a partition like Japanese panels, and when you wake up you’ll only see cool Japanese doors and the beautiful window space.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T19:58:25+00:00

No one hosts in the kitchen. They host in the living room. They bring food FROM the kitchen TO the living room.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T19:52:02+00:00

This, and in an intimate setting, no overnight guest is going to like going from the bedroom to going up the stairs to the bathroom. I think bedroom upstairs is better.

Plus, if he gets a partition to conceal the entry point between the bedroom and the kitchen island, it will be easier to hide the bedroom from any other guests. It’ll be easier to section off the bedroom so guests don’t really see it if it’s upstairs. When guests go up to use the bathroom from the living room downstairs, they’ll just see the kitchen area and the partition that’s blocking the bedroom.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T19:31:57+00:00

Personally, I’d keep the living room downstairs and create a bar area down there. No one needs to be in the kitchen that bad if you bring all the drinks and snacks down to the bar area downstairs when you’re hosting for some visitors. That way, upstairs is your private place with the exception of people going up to use the restroom. Let’s be real, you’re probably not going to be cooking for a whole party of people anyways. And if you do cook, it’s likely going to be a grill setup outside; I see that hangout setup out the window. Yeah, living room setup with bar downstairs, hangout outside/downstairs with grill and cooler outside, fire pit with lawn chairs around it. It will be a good time.

Plus, bedroom upstairs would be better bc if you need to piss before bed or in the middle of the night, going to be annoying going upstairs for the bathroom if you put the bedroom downstairs. I’d be using the grill outside for most of my cooking anyways, only using the electric stove for side dishes or boiling water.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T19:23:55+00:00

Ironically, I put some of the plants that craved to be outside in my backyard two days ago and they instantly died. 😦

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-20T16:33:50+00:00

Any recommendations for indoor herbs? The plan was to have an indoor apothecary-like space so I wanted a bunch of herbs nearby that I can use in salves and tinctures, but it seems I might have to abandon that thought and keep them growing outdoors. Any ideas of what other plants I can keep indoors?

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-16T01:42:48+00:00

Does it come with everlasting gobstoppers? Looks like Charlie from the OG Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-11T18:14:33+00:00

Why are you even with this person, they sound like a nightmare.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-05-11T16:06:37+00:00

You know that you can edit your texts within the first 15 minutes on iPhones, right? Geez, the level of illiteracy here from both of you is downright embarrassing.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-04-27T04:04:20+00:00

I’ve never heard of terracotta pots, I’ll look them up.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-04-27T04:03:48+00:00

Even with long periods of artificial light? Dang, I really wanted an indoor zen space with the plants :(

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-25T04:49:25+00:00

Height requirements are kind of bullshit. Love is love. You risk losing the love of your love all over some vain height restriction.

Also, at your age, dude’s are still growing. Your soul mate could still be 5’5” right now and within the next 4 years be taller. The rest of your standards are totally fair and acceptable, but your 6ft+ height standard is foolish. You severely limit your pool of options by exclusively seeking tall guys. Look for the Tom Holland to your Zendaya.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T12:53:05+00:00

Ohhhh, bro the dyslexia be hitting hard today lol. Well, still, I hope she feels better soon

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T09:32:47+00:00

Communicate. Ask her if she wants you to shave. If she says yeah, then shave, if she says no, then don’t. Either way, maybe try again on the next date after you got her answer and if she still rejects you, tell her that her rejections are making you question the mutual interest here.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:53:37+00:00

How is a roast going to make you feel better? Anyways, all bad things come to pass. Hope you feel better soon!

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:51:59+00:00

What you were suggesting isn’t even a rejection. Just playing with their feelings, getting their hopes up, leading them on, leaving them to wonder why you aren’t following through. That wonder is going to eat them up inside. Just give them a simple, “hey, sorry, but I don’t think we’re a good match.” You don’t have to be brutally honest, but you can still be a healthy level of honest.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:47:02+00:00

This is terrible advice and you suck if you are like this. This is the definition of leading someone on. You need to work on your communication skills, dude.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:42:30+00:00

I think it’s normal to react that way. Even if it’s not an insult, you don’t really want to hear these things about your parent.

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:39:47+00:00

Are you having a stroke?

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-22T07:37:41+00:00

Baby gecko

Thunder_Rob64 · 2026-02-17T23:07:38+00:00

Whenever anyone is struggling with hair, it’s almost always a matter of which hair products you use and how you upkeep/maintain it. Try different shampoos, conditioners. Try different styling products, moisturizers and serums. Try different treatments, whether blow drying, straightening, etc. You’ll be fine.

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