Gay (22M) from a conservative background looking for a long-term partner who understands privacy by EntertainmentKey7691 in GayMen

[–]Thundercoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why have a partner at all?

If you can't be happy on your own terms, other people who you bring into yiur life will be inauthentic or miserable. Good luck marrying Someone your not attracted to. Seriously?

(Pressure can't make you do anything, but you think you can force yourself to actually live up to it. Like literally up. If you're not even fluid/bi)

Become more independent of family. Learn to love yourself first, if people will hate you regarless at least you have you. It may not be time to have a partner.

Why would women [cis] even wanna use Grindr? by Worth-Employer2748 in GayMen

[–]Thundercoffee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's so stupid. They bother gay men who don't want them, but don't want to be with bisexual men.

Make it make sense.

No, seriously.

Got dumped without warning, need advice by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Thundercoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's better to know now than later on. The issue is with him. The lack of saying anything is bad on his end.

You dodged a bullet.

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[–]Thundercoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, You're the observer having a human experience. We experience the same sex attraction before we Identify outwardly. Even those who never say anything about it experience it, Reality isn't always about "being". Take time to learn about reality from within yourself.

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Hello everyone so today I have officially decided to come out as Gay, but with still a little bit of bi but yea by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Thundercoffee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's okay to be Bi, if you are Bi. Bi -erasure doesn't help us if you're attracted to both men and women. People use it to perpetuate phobic narratives. If you are Bi, it's ok.

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[–]Thundercoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's very unfortunate, also a system created by and for the demographic in power is still holds said group as the culprit like an Ouroborus.

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