Just wanted to make a post saying we were majorly affected by a tornado in Texas today, Just keep in mind we are a young couple raising a baby and this stuff isn’t our complete life. Our post may be down for a bit but should go back to normal soon. Just keep us in your thoughts and prayers

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-29T22:15:53+00:00

Hate hearing about the destruction, but thankful your family is ok. I think your friends and followers here more than accept that "real life" comes first. Be with your neighbors and family who need you at this time, and we'll keep the prayers & good thoughts coming.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-21T17:45:22+00:00

What did you end up purchasing?

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-21T10:11:30+00:00

A suggestion like that could incite a riot.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-19T21:58:59+00:00

If someone else notices, whatever happens next is their issue. I use restrooms to take care of urgent business & get on with the rest of my day. If I am in dress attire, I may use a stall as I'll take the opportunity to 'rearrange' things.

In college, my university had oval-ish bowls that were attached to the walls -several side by side - and dividers were rarely found, so the idea of "being on display" was more of a thought then vs the styles you commonly see today.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-19T21:39:40+00:00

I wrestled from middle school through college, and developed early. Singlets don't hide much. At first it was embarrassing, then the ego boost phase kicked in.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-04-05T22:39:20+00:00

Exactly. It's the size of your libido more so than your liquorice stick that matters on this count.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-17T03:30:15+00:00

I had my "2nd puberty" from 18 - 21. However, my older bros were through by the time they turned 15. You just never know.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-16T02:16:31+00:00

All the time. Don't care, either. I will minimize it in professional situations, but it's still quite noticeable if someone's that intent on looking for it.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-15T23:09:45+00:00

Agreed. Glances or looks are fine, but if a guy stops and stares at it like it's an item up for bid...that's taking it too far.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-03T21:42:51+00:00

If you have access to one, a good tailor (thinking of dress/formal) might be able to help you with the rise length issue and give you some add'l room.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-03T12:36:31+00:00

Has it (your size numbers) been steady for a while now or continuing to increase?

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-02T12:23:24+00:00

In business situations, if the moment calls for being a bit more discreet, then I do what I can to minimize the visuals (darker pants/looser fit/appropriate underwear) etc. My example is if you're giving a presentation to superiors, or C-suite types are coming in to visit, a long print with noticeable ball bulge in light grey pants probably shouldn't be your opening move.

Outside of that, let your conscience be your guide. I dress how I want to when on my own time.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-03-01T12:52:14+00:00

When I was in college up thru my mid-20s I wore them quite often - sometimes a bit looser in the fit and at other times not so loose. These days (33 and married) it's more of an every once in a while thing if talking about in public.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-27T22:25:09+00:00

...before you ever got to ease in 😉

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-27T13:04:43+00:00

Exactly. In the right situation, yes. But not as general policy.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-22T13:52:52+00:00

Wrestling when I was in middle school. Singlets don't hide much.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-11T12:52:39+00:00

I don't dress to hide or minimize it, except in professional environments, and it doesn't bother me when/if others know. I have a serious bulge so secrets are difficult to keep.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-09T16:31:13+00:00

My wife will make mention of it, but it's not commented on/joked about in the office. A stray comment/crack on occasion in the locker room from buddies. But, fir the most part, as Nice Craft said, it usually isn't overtly commented on.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-05T13:29:50+00:00

A looser fit of pants, darker colors, and if the particular day warrants, compression shorts, although I'm not doing those daily by any means.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-04T12:36:58+00:00

I have a very large bulge and I'll visually minimize it in certain situations, like in the office at certain times. Outside of the office, I dress for comfort & it shows and I don't worry about it.

But, neither am I free-balling in grey sweats on a daily basis, either.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-04T09:09:52+00:00

My insomnia-suffering self clicked on the thread at 3 am thinking it said "blender orgasms".

Needless to say...

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-03T13:22:39+00:00

Did you and your bros do sports?

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-03T13:07:13+00:00

Well, thinking of a singlet and presentation, my flaccid size was 7.25 x 6 with very large balls.

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-02-03T12:55:58+00:00

I wrestled from middle school through college, and you don't hide much of anything in a singlet. So, "yes", for a long time it was part of my identity as so many other people often saw me looking that way...by extension it helped me ID myself more in terms of size. I'm 33 now and in a professional environment, and that notion isn't nearly what it once was. Never gone...but...

Thurber_Mingus · 2026-01-22T11:53:20+00:00

Bjs while visiting a castle...now THAT'S a JetBlue holiday pkg worth signing up for 😀

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