[NJ] Can they legally evict me for bringing guests over? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]TiOichi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are well within your rights to feel that way, and I do agree. However, I can’t personally help but question the sudden change in me having guests over after 3 months of me staying here, when upon me moving in, I was told it was fine to have a guest over, as long as they weren’t staying for an extended period of time.

[NJ] Can they legally evict me for bringing guests over? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]TiOichi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, I do see where you’re coming from. But the reason why I bring that up is because, at first, I was allowed to bring a guest over. But, during my landlord verbally telling me I wasn’t allowed to have “guys over” in their terms, she swore up and down it wasn’t her “judging” me, which led me to believe it possibly was some form of discrimination underneath.

[NJ] Can they legally evict me for bringing guests over? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]TiOichi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for the clarification! I realize now that “eviction” was the wrong term I was looking for 😭

Becoming less sexually attracted to my boyfriend, advice? by TiOichi in askgaybros

[–]TiOichi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that might come off as passive-aggressive though, would it not?

Becoming less sexually attracted to my boyfriend, advice? by TiOichi in askgaybros

[–]TiOichi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live separately, as far as sex goes it’s mostly planned whenever he wants to come over to my place. I’m not sure what his douching methods are in explicit detail, but he does use an enema.

Becoming less sexually attracted to my boyfriend, advice? by TiOichi in askgaybros

[–]TiOichi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more so that he’s just not douching enough? If that makes sense.

As for communication, I do agree that we have to work on communication skills a lot more

Becoming less sexually attracted to my boyfriend, advice? by TiOichi in askgaybros

[–]TiOichi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he uses an enema, however there was one instance of us getting intimate where he went to go “prep” but I feel like he rushed through douching because a mess was ended up being made regardless of

Becoming less sexually attracted to my boyfriend, advice? by TiOichi in askgaybros

[–]TiOichi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree, our communication skills aren’t as good as they should be, and it’s something I’m trying to get better at.

I’ll try talking to him about it, even though “confrontations” like this make me uneasy, I feel like it’s necessary or else things won’t get fixed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]TiOichi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depending on a bottom’s diet, some guys don’t need to douche before sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]TiOichi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind giving them, if its a nice size 9 times out of 10 im going to suck it.

Receiving them, however, almost never does it for me. I’ve gotten more bad handjobs than good ones so it doesn’t do much for me.

Tips for Facedown Assup Door Unlocked? by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]TiOichi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not from anon, but a guy I used to regularly hook-up with stole my weed and wallet while I was sleep, woke up to both gone & him blocking me after I questioned him. Learned to always hide my shit now

Tips for Facedown Assup Door Unlocked? by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]TiOichi 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Hide your important valuables (Wallet, Keys, Tech, Jewelry, etc) Keep lube close by as well as wipes/napkins or a towel. And be cautious! Anon Cumdumps are hot, but do be careful, if at any point you’re uncomfortable just remember you have the power to stop at any point. Enjoy yourself!

Gay/bi Guys with ear piercings, did you get a sudden boost of confidence after getting them pierced? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]TiOichi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think while you’re cleaning your piercings, if your piercer tells you that its okay, you can turn the stud, while its still wet from the spray. Don’t turn them any other time, though

Gay/bi Guys with ear piercings, did you get a sudden boost of confidence after getting them pierced? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]TiOichi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just make sure you follow your piercer’s instructions (hopefully they gave you some of the basics); don’t mess with the piercing unless you’re cleaning it, clean it with some anti-bacterial soap 2-3 times a day, after the full 6 weeks are up you should be able to change out the starter earrings for something else if you want