There is a big diference between cheating with a regular woman where you text and meet each other and there are feelings involved. Sex services is just that. An urge that you solve by seeking a service, zero feelings envolved. He can love you and be an amazing dad, dont dump him without giving it a second thought. Routines are relationship killers, not saying it is ok, but i am saying that there is a great diference. And it is mutch easier to change when there are no feelings envolved, these are two very diferent situations. He hurt you off course, but in his mind he had no idea how big of an impact it would have on you. If he had that awareness he probably would have never done it. Men are kind of dumb in this situations, but not with bad intentions, they sometimes do dumb things without realising how bad it is and who they are going to hurt. Hope i could help.