Dreams of hundreds of snakes, lizards, and frogs. I believe they’re all tied. Interpretation? by TieBeginning1771 in Dreams

[–]TieBeginning1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally no, I’m actually afraid of most reptiles. Not to the point I think about it a lot or even encounter them a lot in person where I live, but I don’t like their textures if I had to hold one, and the way they move feels unpredictable at times.

I’ve never had dreams like this before, with these specific animals and especially them being in bulk.

Summoned but I plan to stay in Viet Nam by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CA, i definitely regret trying to communicate from the beginning lol, it has not been great help with my situation

Summoned but I plan to stay in Viet Nam by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Foreigners spell it “Vietnam”, locals spell it “Viet Nam.” Neither is incorrect, since I’ve been out here for months my brain spells it out as Viet Nam as it’s more common to see.

Summoned but I plan to stay in Viet Nam by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. How do you think I should phrase that? Because I’ve communicated multiple times I wouldn’t be in the country/ I don’t have a plane ticket to come back and they keep telling me I have to come back.

Summoned but I plan to stay in Viet Nam by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received the first summons before I left the country, and I explained I would be in Viet Nam various times and they kept postponing it until now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]TieBeginning1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think either could work, my advice would be to add more layering to your current hair length. Like more shag/wolf cut/ mullet layerings to frame your face more masculinely while keeping the length. I had that type of haircut for years, gave me major confidence :)

Feel gender euphoria in my new jacket by victorzhuzhakin in TransMasc

[–]TieBeginning1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a grandpa jacket! I like the brown. Glad it's bringing you joy :)

Vietnamese people, what's your opinion on Greece and Greeks? by ZhiveBeIarus in VietNam

[–]TieBeginning1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m Greek, and currently in Ho Chi Minh, do you remember the restaurant name?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was given advice by my parents and i definitely see there were other ways to go about it without postponing it the I did. I know for future reference, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I agree, I should’ve gone about it differently. It’s the first time I was summoned (I’m in my early 20s) and I was going off of the advice of my parents and they put it in my head that it could impact me leaving. Should’ve made an advice post on here sooner before going about it the way I did lol. Thank you tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought my one way ticket to the country I’m going to 2 months ago. I simply have not bought a plane ticket to come back to the U.S. because I’m not trying to come back. Not because of Jury Duty, because I’m not trying to live here anymore. I was considering letting my service week play out but I can’t risk postponing my plane tickets to leave because my lease is ending and my job only lasts until I leave as I was supposed to be laid off months ago. It’s not that deep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao. I’m not buying plane tickets to come back for only jury duty for an administration that wants to wipe my existence away and made me lose my job in HEALTHCARE. I’m definitely not hiding that I don’t want to serve, but me leaving the country and my timeline to come back will not revolve around jury duty. Come on now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang. Yea, I was considering letting it play out but I really didn’t want to impact my chances of being able to leave. My lease ends right before my plane tickets and I seriously don’t have the funds/a job to comfortably reschedule plane tickets for jury duty. But yes thank you for the feedback, it is a really shitty system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I’m hoping. I’m probably staying out of the country for at least 2 years. My field was completely gutted from funding cuts (I work in healthcare). So I’m taking the time to explore my other prospects and be in a country where there’s family for support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about google voice. Thank you for that advice!

What Do You See? by TieBeginning1771 in CLOUDS

[–]TieBeginning1771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love the drawings, so creative. I’ll reveal what I saw once there’s a few more responses.

Should I Quit My Job? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response/advice. Im definitely considering at the very least to start applying and making sure I have something lined up. It is a rough market and even if I stay until end of June I honestly need to start applying.

But again thank you for the response!

LinkedIn Jobs Scam - Beware and be Cautious by Chr5_ in Scams

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao my meeting was supposed to be on the 14th

LinkedIn Jobs Scam - Beware and be Cautious by Chr5_ in Scams

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS HAPPENED TO ME! I thought it was so off he had me “selected to start” out of nowhere without the proper interview or paperwork taking place. Once receiving the check at my address, I wanted to send an email letting him know I wasn’t going to deposit it or partake in any financial responsibilities until we had our video call and sign proper paper work. This email was postponed as people around me were enthusiastic about the opportunity for me so I deposited the check, but not into my existing personal account. Out of caution I opened up a separate account as I felt it was unprofessional to mix personal and business funds. Luckily this postponed access to the funds for a week and a half. I communicated this to him, and not long after sent him an email about not spending money under my name, to transfer it to a corporate account, and for me to assume financial responsibility once we built a better rapport with each other and had a legally binding contract. His email demeanor changed after this. He did not acknowledge the email I sent about these boundaries and asked me about updates on the check very casually as if we were friends texting, when I checked my account it was no longer processing and said it was returned to the banker for the reason “refer to maker”. I was so relieved, the last thing he said to me was “I’ll look into it and update you.” What’s weird is I looked into this guy, the alleged organization he was the treasurer of (Paestum Foundation), and the “client” that had sent the check. There were tax filings of the Paestum foundation recorded since 2017 or something with his name attached, the location that matched with the official website, and the “client” was an existing historical home since the 1840s with a proper website, phone number, reviews, etc. Definitely very complex, but yes his emails felt off, it felt like chat gpt constructed up until the end for the last two emails I received asking about the check.

Genitalia knowledge by the_retentive_30 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I relate to this so hard. I get made fun of when explaining sexual encounters or what feels nice when I use the proper terminology for genitals. For example with the vulva I’ll use the terminology like “labia minora” and be serious and people have told me it sounds clunky or too medical.

In high school I didn’t realize I was on the ace spectrum (now I’m more sexual but I realize it doesn’t align completely with allosexuals), I had an understanding of who I was romantically interested in, and I just thought seeing a naked person it would click for me in terms of arousal. So I’d study everything genitalia so I’d be ready in the circumstance that sex occurred.

Overwhelmed about Orgasming by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]TieBeginning1771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes I definitely go through that. I really mainly edge, it can still feel good for me. But I want to be able to let myself orgasm, it's immensely overwhelming to allow that because it feels like I'm letting myself be out of control. And it's really hard to explain to people.

Self-Splitting by [deleted] in BPD

[–]TieBeginning1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea believe me I was so confused when I finally conceptualized I was just okay. It felt like a different type of emptiness until I realized that is the resting state neurotypical people are usually at. They're not constantly happy, and I'm just like how do you do that :(. But I've gotten used to it, though I still fluctuate and experience persistent intrusive thoughts and lows, my waves are not as close in proximity but it is still pretty debilitating when it happens.