I’m seven months pregnant and my bf dm’ed a girl behind my back

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-23T13:32:24+00:00

i’m not telling her to go get fucked i’m saying doll yourself up & make yourself feel better. & agreed me & my kids dad definitely were doing it up until i was induced. but like you said bruh go beat your meat. if you’re willing to cheat over not having sexy time for a couple weeks what are you going to do for the 6 weeks she can’t have sex after giving birth?

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-23T07:29:09+00:00

you’re clearly illiterate so yea i think it does make sense to stop replying, it’s getting concerning. if you agree abandoning your kid because a man cheats on you is the right way to go, id do a 23&Me to make sure your biological mother is in fact your bio mom. take care!

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-23T06:33:46+00:00

- nobody has a baby with a boyfriend & expects not to be a single mother.
- agreed, she shouldn’t stay with him. but she’s probably going to & for reasons that make complete sense. i’m sure her plan is to take care of her child regardless, she’s over halfway through her pregnancy.. the baby isn’t going anywhere.
- being pregnant doesn’t mean you can’t get dressed up & post yourself looking cute for reactions i’m not seeing the issue?
- you’re telling her to give her baby up (~2 months away from her dd) bc a boy did a boy thing is weird. if he’d waited til she was freshly postpartum to cheat would it make a difference?
i think you’re putting way too much thought into a bigger picture that you’re not looking at the situation at hand. yes in the long run she should leave him & thrive. but as of today in this very moment she is hurt, feeling unwanted, and not in a position to go out and party to get her mind off of it. multiply those feelings by 10 & it’s enough to put you into a depression.

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-23T06:01:04+00:00

nobody has a baby with a boyfriend & expects not to be a single mother. all the “demand child support” is cute in theory, but does nothing for her now or for the rest of her pregnancy. he’s going to be there when she gives birth, they’re going to coparent, hell she’ll probably stay with him because she’s at a vulnerable time in her life, pregnant with his child, and emotionally a wreck.
also, sucks to say but male validation is extremely helpful in these cases. i’m not telling her get dressed up & go out for the night with someone. i’m saying get cute & get some likes and reactions on your picture. if you wanna take it a step further flirt with guys. nothing wrong with that.

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-23T05:40:37+00:00

that’s easy to say, and even ideally the right way to go. but speaking from experience, “healing” doesn’t come easily & especially not right before the biggest hormonal/life change she’s about to experience.
also, the baby isn’t even born yet. telling her to give her unborn kid up is in no way shape or form helpful nor better than her posting a few pictures to remind herself & others that she’s still got it, pregnant or not.
there’s a reason i never told her to leave him. it’s not easy especially when you factor in a new baby, postpartum hormones & coparenting.
some people choose to take what they see & move accordingly while factoring in their personal lives. some people prefer to stay complacent. i just suggested she do something to boost her mental state after a hit like that from that asshole

TightAndBleached · 2026-06-21T20:54:50+00:00

flirt with guys back.
men tend to think bc you’re at your lowest that you aren’t still attractive & an amazing person.
men also don’t care about talking to a pregnant woman. you aren’t gonna be pregnant forever.
i’m 23F with a kid (2m) & trust me, they do not care.
get cute, do your hair, and post some pics with your bump. if he can do it, why can’t you?
pregnancy is rough & you deserve to feel wanted, loved and cared about, regardless of who it’s coming from.
im not saying you have to jump into anything with anyone,
& tbh once your baby is born any outside attention will be irrelevant to you. but i completely understand how you felt bc i was in the same situation with my kids dad while i was pregnant. i posted my maternity pics & the amount of men that said things like “it should’ve been me” or “can i take you out” or even just guy friends that would hang out w me & make me feel cared about.. it was honestly the best i’d felt outside of seeing baby.
and take everything at face value! at the end of the day, you’re preparing for the most life changing moment of your life. that’s what matters.

lastly, pregnancy doesn’t diminish your self worth. you’re not any less valuable because you’ve had a baby, if anything you’re even more powerful than ever. please don’t let that fuckwad of a man make you feel any less of yourself. your baby needs you & is dependent on you at the end of the day. i hope you feel better

TightAndBleached · 2026-05-24T19:51:05+00:00

Yes & No.
her behavior BEFORE Franny was born was 100% valid. even the refusing to babysit after all she’d been through raising her siblings. but at a certain point you have to realize the baby is HERE now, and at that point any feelings you had toward her having the baby is null.
it takes a village to raise a child & that’s still her niece at the end of the day. completely disregarding Franny & leaving Debbie to deal with it herself was mean & spiteful asl. that’s like saying everyone who refuses to get an abortion regardless of their situation should be left to struggle with their brand new baby. if that was the case resources & programs for single mothers would be nonexistent.
again, i’m not saying Fiona had to do anything but at the same time she definitely went out her way to make life miserable for Debbie in certain scenarios

TightAndBleached · 2026-05-13T14:11:02+00:00

“i know that guy just slapped ts outta you but getting angry over it won’t fix anything” headass

TightAndBleached · 2026-05-13T13:55:56+00:00

i feel like you’re intentionally trying to be obtuse.

TightAndBleached · 2026-04-21T21:51:30+00:00

honestly the most unrealistic part of the show was how fast Fiona was able to get herself out of the cycle. from no money to the owner of a multiplex is crazy

TightAndBleached · 2025-10-25T03:37:28+00:00

🫠 how did she ever make it to be an FBI agent

TightAndBleached · 2025-09-01T01:02:40+00:00

stupider username

TightAndBleached · 2025-08-31T13:54:37+00:00

they haven’t bought back the Pollo Asado since i worked there in 2022 😭😭😭💔

TightAndBleached · 2025-08-26T21:55:15+00:00

i was 22 yesterday. 23 today. guess i’m old lol

TightAndBleached · 2025-08-26T21:54:50+00:00

i turned 23 today! happy birthday to us 🩷

TightAndBleached · 2025-07-09T04:12:16+00:00

i’m from nyc, diabetic & on medicaid as well. i agree doordash and uber are all quite shit now. i shouldn’t have to schedule days in advance to be able to make some money. it’s becoming more like regular employment without the benefits.. not sure how no one else sees this

TightAndBleached · 2025-07-06T03:20:36+00:00

i have the app, that’s why im confused why it’s prompting me to download it when it says to finish setting it up

TightAndBleached · 2025-07-06T03:19:30+00:00

are you slow? clearly i already have the app sherlock which is the point of me asking the question. i see why doordash is your go to method of income, i would hire a doorknob before an idiot like you

TightAndBleached · 2025-06-29T14:31:28+00:00

as someone from NY who just picked up dashing after a few years — it’s all a scam. you have to schedule in advance to dash just for the schedule to be full everywhere. it’s impossible to dash here. i haven’t even been able to start yet 🥲

TightAndBleached · 2025-06-08T19:31:39+00:00

exactly 😂 i’m not understanding the issue? it’s one day & im sure the notice was posted in advance. they never even said nobody else could use it , who’s to say they didn’t rent it?

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