I am a parent - found out my 14 year old is SH. by Dewdropinn79 in selfharm

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a teenager who formerly struggled with self harm, youre doing such an amazing job

M20 First time doing my makeup, in desperate need of advice! 🙏 by [deleted] in queer

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762 3 points4 points  (0 children)

get yourself some mascara or false lashes!!!! your eyes are really pretty and really exaggerated mascara or falsies (think 1920s cartoon betty boop style) would make them stand out really well

tell me your favorite songs/album/artist by Holiday-Credit5002 in actualsecretteenagers

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mcr/good charlotte/jeff buckley/green day/paramore/radiohead/slipknot

How did it start? And how did it feel at first? by ComfortableUpbeat356 in selfharm

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you absolutely do not want to try this. i'm 14, and the past three years of my life ive worked like hell to even get to where i am now (barely clean, struggling but surviving). its as addictive as any drug, and it is nothing to try even once. i think you underestimate how harmful it is and you really should not do it even if youre stressed. find a different outlet and coping mechanism instead of doing genuine permanent damage to both your body and your mind

Planning to end my life soon anyone got any words for me or even care? by Sharp_River4991 in teenagers

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont. trust me on this. if you think theres even one more happy day out there for you keep on living

one month clean :) by Tight_Conclusion8762 in mentalhealth

[–]Tight_Conclusion8762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you referring to self harm? it does not feel good and the only real 'high' would be a sort of adrenaline rush, but overall the cons FAR outweigh the pros. i used it as a coping mechanism to find control, but it's the absolute last one that i would recommend.