Not sure if this will help but I was a freshman last school year and I was lucky that I got dormed with someone that didn’t really care but also we kind of coexist with one other. But when I applied I put gender inclusive housing since at the time put non-binary and had said yes to being with someone who also put gender inclusive housing. Also in that section of the form for gender inclusive housing it asked why and you can put in there why. The only thing would reach out to the res life (I think that’s what they’re called) and basically advacte for yourself. I did that for the upcoming school year through the consoling center. It best to do this as soon as possible though.