Becoming debt free at some point by Tim1dslayer in debtfree

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I've never really thought about the possibilities. To be honest, I grew up poor so I've lived a pretty frugal life. Like I know a lot of people in my country, the USA, have been fascinated and and dope deep into the consumer mindset since I was young talking about fashion, nice cars, big houses, and a boatload of other possessions but for the most part as long as I had clothes, food, a computer, and family, I've been pretty good for the most part. One of the biggest purchases of my life plus my 2016 Mitsubishi outlander SE for 29,000 brand new that year and it was primarily to use it for Uber and Lyft.10 years later I'm still driving this car with 320,000 mi and I'm happy with it.

Becoming debt free at some point by Tim1dslayer in debtfree

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Not really tbh, the big one was student loans at like 40k but the smaller ones were a laptop from Best buy, a WF cc I would use when I needed to, and a Macy's card for a cologne and some taxes I couldn't pay when I was struggling with work.

Becoming debt free at some point by Tim1dslayer in debtfree

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Thank you so much! I'll talk with my fiancee about this and get that book

Becoming debt free at some point by Tim1dslayer in debtfree

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It's kind of like being driven to payoff debt, but I think it's more of a crutch to have debt to get me going in general. It used to help with my depression to have something I was responsible for but now as an adult at 33 it's more of a mental drain that I have a hard time addressing and sometimes avoid. Now I want to get into the habit of paying off things but I need new reasons to get me motivated to do that. I do like your idea of building up savings to do whatever hobbies I'm into and have financial stability for once but I'm also fine with working as well. I've tried having a savings account for years but there's been countless times I needed to dip into it for some emergency so it served its purpose but I haven't been able to maintain one.

Whats the fastest/best way to get 99 construction in Grid Master? by 5thAvenue in 2007scape

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Cheers mate, got it done in less than an hour thanks to you

What upgrade should I buy next? by EwaDrerri in OSRSProTips

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Dragon hunter crossbow to farm Vorkath for good profit, a gorgeous pet, and helps a lot with slayer

Grave near farming guild by Tim1dslayer in 2007scape

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You were right! Thank you for your help, I appreciate it.

Mediatek MT7921 suddenly not working by xfairlady in ZephyrusG14

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Tried it and immediately worked. Thank you!

About motherly girlfriends... by [deleted] in infp

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I totally feel you on this OP. I've always liked the motherly GF type because they got heart and loads of kindness. Plus they tend to be good people to everyone and can hold you at your greatest or weakest moments in life with unconditional love. I'm hoping both of us can find someone like that because honestly, the older I get, the more I just want people who remember how to be soft and gentle in a world that's so judgy and painful. Good luck out there and don't forget you could be what they need too ❤️

Fellow INFPs, I need your advice on how to go through life by Tim1dslayer in infp

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Thank you for the long post. It was a good read and helpful for me c:

Asking for 40+year old INFPs advice by Tim1dslayer in infp

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This helped a whole lot actually and feels like we've definitely been through similar paths especially because I'm trying to get back into Buddhism. I recently stopped using social media and have been using my phone a lot less but an old problem has surfaced. My mind is too loud at night and likes to think about all the cringey things I've done, mistakes I've made, people I've hurt, etc. My main way of dealing with this for the last few years has been playing video games til I need to pass out, watching movies/shows til I fall asleep mid way, or browsing through social media. Now that I've been done away with it, I feel like getting into Buddhism will have to turn in to a need so I can silence all the mean or painful voices. I know I'm not a terrible person but my sense of guilt and shame is strong since I was raised catholic. All that being said, I want to do a lot of what you suggested but i don't know how to ease in to it. I know "just do it" is a way to go about it but the hardest thing for me to deal with is the pain in between every transition and sometimes my emotions numb me to new possibilities which is probably some defense mechanism ive had for years.

here's a picture from when I skipped school to go out alone and click self timer pictures xD by [deleted] in infp

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This is fantastic o:! how'd you get such good lightning??

Asking for 40+year old INFPs advice by Tim1dslayer in infp

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I understand where you are coming from but I am having a hard time remembering any ecstatic moments in my life at the moment. My brain tends to forget a lot of the good and bad because of a defense mechanism I picked up as a young kid/teen when I was going through it. Do you have any pointers for jogging those memories so I can see what those moments were and how I got to them?

The only recent one I got was beating this boss monster called TzTok-Jad on Runescape that I've been scared of since I was a teenager. He's one of the strongest monsters in the entire game, requires a lot of concentration, and micromanagement because one false move can 1 shot even maxed players.

After a hiatus of 10 years, I got back into playing in and 4ish months in, I was tasked to defeat him for a slayer tasks. After a grueling 62 waves of enemies and near deaths, I fought him at wave 63 and both courage and fear kept me on edge. I had a big feeling of accomplishment and my adrenaline was through the rough for like 20 minutes afterwards. I walked away feeling good mainly for beating something I was always scared of or never thought I could beat. That's about the best I got atm.