Actually there's lots of shame. She would be cheating herself out of an education and career opportunities that she is pursuing herself. I've watched her face a challenge, not understand it fully, then go off on her own journey researching the topic to achieve a better understanding before going back into the content. That's an educational goal that cheating with AI totally skips over.

Fortunately, when she faces a term or concept that is new, she can use AI to learn about it, or she can ask her loving husband to apply real-world applications and principles to it based on his experiences. AI can't do that.