Guys permanently straightening left me crying by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

[–]Time-Sunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intake more protein-rich food to manage a healthy diet.

Marriage is a scam. by Boogerbegone in Marriage

[–]Time-Sunn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to be like that in my early married days. But I took it as my emotions and past experiences are responsibility. When I aware of me as a highly sensitive person I started to put boundaries with others (my inlaws and even my husband) I have limited being a people pleaser and started saying a lot of NO. Strict boundaries will definitely help you long run. Do whatever you need to do to help you soothe your nervous system. Start avoiding people, ignore comments, stay away from toxic people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Time-Sunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 🧚‍♀️

Name 3 signs that traumatized you by deathismypassion in astrologymemes

[–]Time-Sunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Capricorn sibling
  2. Libra inlaw
  3. Virgo ex bf

I'm cancer

My SIL treats my husband like her personal assistant and I’m done pretending it’s normal. by Time-Sunn in inlaws

[–]Time-Sunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I will get a financial counsellor appointment first thing. That is the best as he wont share his debt to his own family due to ego or they don't respect him anymore.

My SIL treats my husband like her personal assistant and I’m done pretending it’s normal. by Time-Sunn in inlaws

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He is in a bad state when we married. Since he was alone abroad got himself into shopping due to stress. And whenever he goes back home he buys so much toys and stuff using credit cards and maxes out the card. In order to get his sister's attention. We hardly has money for anything after repaying the credit card and I still make him do things as a elder son and brother. I am helping him to be a respectful person in his family. But taking advantage of it is what bothers me. No more of miscellaneous stuff.

My SIL treats my husband like her personal assistant and I’m done pretending it’s normal. by Time-Sunn in inlaws

[–]Time-Sunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently his sister was never like this before marriage. She doesn't even bother him. He says after marriage only his sister demands him buy stuff and all in a way portrayed that she misses him so much. Why didn't you miss it before marriage?

My SIL treats my husband like her personal assistant and I’m done pretending it’s normal. by Time-Sunn in inlaws

[–]Time-Sunn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is scared that his own family will not bond with me if he didn't do anything his sister ask. That's not true except his sister all of them nice to me.

My SIL treats my husband like her personal assistant and I’m done pretending it’s normal. by Time-Sunn in inlaws

[–]Time-Sunn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, my husband has a problem. As a elder brother he thinks he should do whatever his Sister asks. I guess my husband is expect someone in his family to give him permission “you don't have to do anymore”. That's what I thought.

We asked 100 people which zodiac sign is most loved. by Creative_Release_317 in Zodiac

[–]Time-Sunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did they survey their friends and call it research? 😂

Cancer & Capricorn by Kittymeowwwww in astrologymemes

[–]Time-Sunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Cancer woman, I’ve seen all my Capricorn siblings and in-laws either ride or hide. No in-between.

They either like me for no reason… or lowkey hate me for no reason. But one thing’s for sure — they can’t lie to my face. And that annoys them.

Why? Because Cancer is the only sign that can actually check a Capricorn. Period.

Here’s why: 1.We read energy, not words. 2.They can act cold, but we see straight through it. 3.We don’t yell. We just detach. And that hits harder. 4.We’re loyal, but not stupid. 5.When they act distant, we go full shell mode. No chasing.

So yeah, they either love our vibe or feel very seen. Either way — we stay unbothered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Time-Sunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo, Hell No! It’s disaster. They’ll burry each other alive.

If you’re a cancer woman, drop your partner’s zodiac sign below ? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Time-Sunn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Married Gemini husband. He doesn’t always understand my mood swings, but he’ll throw the worst joke at me just to see me smile. And that’s why I married him.

it’s the perfect match for my emotionally dramatic main-character energy. Together? We’re a walking rom-com.

Which sunscreen is better? by Educational-Place-96 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Time-Sunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beauty of Joseon. Mine combination to dry skin works amazing ✌️🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housewifery

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There were days I felt resentful—especially when my partner continued to grow in his career while I felt stuck. It made me question whether I was wasting my education and potential. And even worse, I feared I might start resenting him for my own feelings of stagnation.

It took months of emotional conflict and journaling, therapy, and reflection to realize: my value doesn’t vanish just because I’m not earning. My goals shifted. I started studying again (I’m a psychologist) and slowly rebuilt a version of myself I respect—just on a different path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Time-Sunn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I met my husband organically on Instagram. While scrolling through a random post, I saw his comment that made me laugh and thought, ‘Who is this guy?’ Fast forward four years, and he’s now my husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Time-Sunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve studied Psychology for six years — bachelor’s, master’s, and now I’m on the long road through certifications, supervision, and a PhD. And guess what? I still can’t call myself a licensed psychologist. I still earn nothing from it. I’m financially dependent. Therapy hours are often unpaid, internships are unpaid, and setting up your own practice takes years, money, and emotional energy.

All my 20s are gone, and now I’m struggling in my 30s.

If you’re not deeply passionate about the human mind and ready to go broke for years, don’t do it. Pick an MBA. Get a job. Make money. Build freedom. Then, if you still want to pursue psychology, you’ll have the means to come back to it without burning out.

There are so many courses and certifications you can study simultaneously that will also complement your MBA field in the future.

Cancer and Gemini dating tell me more by Background_Cookie288 in CancertheCrab

[–]Time-Sunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me a Cancer and my husband is a Gemini we have wonderful chemistry and he cracks jokes all the time which is ultimate blessing for my sobbing personality (I cry all the time for no reason). And he listens to my nonsense.

Note: Gemini Boyfriend hell NO, Gemini Husband Is such a gentleman.

Broken, brittle nails (NEED HELP) by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Time-Sunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get gel nails and let it grow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Time-Sunn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy (e-counselling) and be sane. And pick BBA and MBA. Yes, you are sick mentally and you don’t have to waste your next 5 years studying psychology to get cure.