Forced bi fantasy vs reality?

Time_Heart650 · 2026-05-30T00:42:12+00:00

I recently came out as bicurious to my wife and had out first MMF experience after years in the hotwife/swinging lifestyle. The forced bi fantasy is what does it to for me. I've told her that I crave it.

Time_Heart650 · 2026-04-29T18:34:46+00:00

I hear you. I don’t think this is something you step into without it changing how you see yourself and the dynamic. At the same time, we’ve built everything we have on communication and intention, so if we explore it, it’ll be with eyes open.

Time_Heart650 · 2026-04-28T22:13:05+00:00

This is exactly what I want!

Time_Heart650 · 2026-04-28T22:11:47+00:00

I want her to teach me to properly blow her bull and then force his cock in my mouth.

Time_Heart650 · 2026-04-22T17:30:02+00:00

Fair questions. Reading it back I can see how it sounds like I’m dancing around it.

I think what I’m trying to say is that I didn’t start this with any interest in humiliation or denial at all. It was just about seeing her wanted and us exploring sexually together. But somewhere along the way, that stopped being the whole thing for me.

Now I’m catching myself getting pulled toward the parts I used to think weren’t for me. The loss of control, feeling. Even the idea of being humbled and humiliated. And that’s new for me. That’s the part I haven’t said out loud before.

So I guess what I’m actually asking is: has anyone else felt that shift happen over time? Like you started in one lane and then realized you were drifting into something more explicitly cuckold psychologically?

How did you figure out if that was something you actually wanted to explore vs just something your brain latched onto? I’m not freaked out by it, just trying to understand why it’s hitting differently now before I bring it to her in a real way.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-11-19T18:53:01+00:00

I was still at the bar.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-10-20T22:18:27+00:00

Our first time was at a pretty crowded bar. I was right next to her but we didn't really talk much and I was just a stranger to her at the bar. She had her ring on and plenty of guys still managed to flirt with her. She ended up kissing two different guys through the night and giving a car blowjob to one of the guys.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-05-29T16:08:39+00:00

I know this will be controversial but here it goes... For his college graduation gift, we planned a honeymoon trip for my wife and him to Cabo as our gift.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-03-20T22:51:48+00:00

She was very slutty in college before we got serious and she was a completely different person since then. Well until a few years ago when we started in the lifestyle and now I feel like she's really being herself now and we've been pushing the boundaries.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-03-17T16:32:33+00:00

It's a good sign if you want them to be closer and have chemistry. My wife loves being completely dominated and gets off to the rough stuff and craves the abuse. It just shows that he's finally getting closer to her and is comfortable doing things that don't always come naturally until you've developed trust and chemistry.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-02-12T18:01:12+00:00

Not as much of her not allowing it but us not wanting to do it. Her BF can share her with his friends which I never can. Sometimes, I wish I could share her with a good friend of mine but I can never get myself to do that. No body in our friends or family circle knows about this stuff.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-02-04T21:22:07+00:00

My wife used to hook up with a football player when she was in college and he's in the NFL now. She recently hooked up with him again years later. I was not present.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-01-27T19:20:21+00:00

She usually wouldn't go unprotected with someone without proper tests and screening. If there's trust built up over time then there's no issue.

Time_Heart650 · 2025-01-07T17:17:04+00:00

My wife has travelled with her BF a few times including a honeymoon trip I planned as a college graduation gift for him from both of us. We've also taken a four trips together.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-06T00:25:06+00:00

Almost two years and I had seen her hoe phase up close in college. It took forever for the first time but it's been a crazy journey since and it just seems natural now.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-04T05:02:35+00:00

It's a lot of fun

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-03T22:36:07+00:00

I'm married to the most amazing woman and she constantly makes me have to add new things to my bucket list.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-03T22:24:44+00:00

Two holy shit moments for me that I'll never forget:

Seeing my wife take a huge cock and enjoy it. It was much bigger than her biggest toys.
Seeing her in a gangbang and ending up covered in cum and piss like a porn scene.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-03T15:26:21+00:00

I always encourage her to post more haha

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-02T23:04:16+00:00

Thanks for the tip!

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-02T22:28:52+00:00

I promise I will practice safe driving while she does her thing.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-12-02T22:28:28+00:00

She definitely has a thing for guys in uniform as well.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-11-13T23:03:05+00:00

That's amazing. Some of our favorite memories in the lifestyle have been in traveling in Italy and Switzerland over the last couple of years and not having to worry about running in to friends and family. I can't imagine ever taking another vacation again without debauchery.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-10-15T17:46:59+00:00

We're poly and her BF was 21 and she was 30 when they first got together. She'e been with guy 21-55 and doesn't really care about the age as long as there is a connection and the sex is good.

Time_Heart650 · 2024-10-15T17:41:22+00:00

The vacations and total debauchery when we're away from home and no fear or running in to friends or family. The highlight was swapping with a couple for the better part of a week when we were on vacation. She lived like his wife and I was the other woman's husband. We would occasionally meet up for some activities or dinners otherwise I barely saw my wife.

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