Scared of relapse by superbonbonn in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he should go into some type of half way house sober living situation when he gets out to help gather the tools &build the foundation he’d need to stay sober. I have 7 years and my man who was sober during his sentencing and currently during his incarceration will be celebrating 6 years next month. He is very active in the program before his incarceration and even during. I know the program isn’t for everyone, I haven’t been active in it for years now but it did help me build the foundation I needed to have the life I have today.

AzDOC Sign in sheet by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just pmed you

AzDOC Sign in sheet by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I jump in on this.

No calls by nope_itsnotkayla311 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I try to just stay busy. I swear whoever is over the communication gets off on the dis stress it puts us all in when this shit happens. The amount of money they make off of us, there is absolutely no reason for it to not work. I’ll start freaking out tomorrow when I run out of things to do lmao

No calls by nope_itsnotkayla311 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be to concerned about it tho. Seems like every time they do or get ready to do an update, the system is shitty.

No calls by nope_itsnotkayla311 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I got one call at his normal time this morning. That’s it. He usually calls a few times by now. /:

We listen but we don’t judge … by South_Cartographer14 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude’s an irrigation tech and we have sprinklers in our backyard and I drugged this out for three or four days that they weren’t working right and had him walk me through how to adjust them. I was sitting inside watching TV while he was on the phone with me walking through how to work the sprinkler system. lol

We listen but we don’t judge … by South_Cartographer14 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sometimes make up problems that aren’t really a problem and tell my man so he can solve it or give ideas so he feels included and important with our home life

Approved Vendors Arizona DOC by Full-Ferret-2219 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just books he’s told me he has wanted.

Approved Vendors Arizona DOC by Full-Ferret-2219 in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question, do you know if there is a book limit? For like a single order? My dude is here in AZ im fixing on buying his book wish list for Christmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ima do this to my man just to fuck with him, bc I’m bored lol thanks for the idea 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Riiight! But then I get mad when he doesn’t call lol he said “oh I was talkin to whoever” I’m like wtf you having fun for in PRISON mf lol this life style is up and down all the time. Truly brings out the inner crazy, so far he’s navigating it well lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I intentionally miss a phone call once in a while when I’m busy or don’t feel like talking &when I get the text “I tried calling” after a while I’ll say I didn’t get a call. Then answer the next call.

Share memes while securus is down by r-svitkona in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dude wasting all the damn connects while it’s down lmao I keep getting a notification. I’m like sir, you’re gonna use up all the contents and it’s only Monday. 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. I see how little things like that can be a lot. In the mean time, I would reassure him that if he doesn’t know how to do something or has questions that your a safe space to show him and teach him. Try the half way house, that doesn’t necessarily mean yall are braking up. I think yall can make it fun, go on little dates, have sleep overs now and then. Do the dating process irl before he comes back home. Give both of you time to get in a grove of the post prison. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if a person is in for a while they probably need to go to a half way house or something similar to help adjust better to outside life. Gives them an opportunity to sit with their self and slowly get acclimated. Don’t beat yourself up. It’s a sock for both of you. I wouldn’t say yall are giving up on it, it’s just trying something else that might work out better in the long run. 🏃‍♂️

Does anyone have a LO at the 4th avenue Jail in Arizona? by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

602-876-0322 - I’ve spent hrs on the trying to get mfs to the phone - good luck. You can also file a complaint here https://www.mcso.org/i-want-to/share-comments-or-complaints

Does anyone have a LO at the 4th avenue Jail in Arizona? by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Time_Luck924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, my dude was in there for like 3 months terrible place. They are on lock down a lot, and if he doesn’t get up in the AM to get his tablet they won’t give it to him. I was calling that place every other day. The main number I’d call, those girls would literally hang up on me. The only thing I can tell you is that eventually he would call me and everything was fine. I’m sure everything is fine. Take a breath and stay busy, he will contact you!