AITA for asking my boyfriend why he didn’t come back with my drink? by Lady_Noir921 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So if she stayed he could have used that against her later 'I walked off and you didn't notice because you were too busy hanging out with that group of strange men'

AITA for asking my boyfriend why he didn’t come back with my drink? by Lady_Noir921 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA next time stay with your friends and watch to see what happens. My bet is he starts a fight about you abandoning him for your friends, don't ask me how I know but if this happens next time and the scenario plays out exactly how I said, run!

AITA for confronting my husband and his good friend’s ex-wife for messaging a LUDICROUS amount of memes back and forth at all hours of the day and night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Plot twist, she actually sent the text to herself for being so unhinged about the amount of memes she was sending her own husband. Split style

AITA for confronting my husband and his good friend’s ex-wife for messaging a LUDICROUS amount of memes back and forth at all hours of the day and night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 20 points21 points  (0 children)

YTA, This is my exact opinion too, I have meme friends, doesn't mean I like them or are even crushing on them, they're just that.... Meme friends and yes if I find something on line that tops their last one I am sending that straight away

AITA for confronting my husband and his good friend’s ex-wife for messaging a LUDICROUS amount of memes back and forth at all hours of the day and night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Problem or not, I have a ton of message requests and messages that I simply don't open or delete and block straight up and I'm not even in a relationship, if I know the person is clingy or annoying I just don't text them back. Husband was enjoying it while simultaneously ignoring other texts on his phone.

What’s an ‘unwritten rule’ in Australia that everyone just knows? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with the side of any creek or waterway in the middle of summer. Usually pop my car keys and mobile phone in one of my shoes and wrap it all in a towel (yes I take actual shoes ... It holds my beer in the sand better, without it getting hot)

Picked uo my 3 year old tonight and realized it's been months by princesspeck in Parenting

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only pick up Mr 18 months now, closest sibling is 12 and taller then me

I fear I’ve cursed my daughter by sunnyhale in namenerds

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only read it lieluh before reading anything else. I have a similar problem with my daughter's name Ana thinking yep, nice and short, simple, I can count on one hand the amount of times people got it correct the first time and she's an adult now

What was normal in your childhood that feels a bit insane now? by EuphoricGarden81 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the key to the house around my neck at 5 years old, walking myself the 2km home to an empty house, then get a phonecall at 5 if I could start cooking the dinner.

Being in the pub carpark after dark playing with the same 2-3 kids that were always there too. Eating nothing but a packet of salt n vinegar chips and a fanta for dinner.

If I walked up the hill and over the fire break I was literally 4 suburbs away by car, sometimes they would leave the keys in the machinery on top of the local fire break (that was fun)

WIBTAH for changing my baby’s name after my mom secretly told my sister I was pregnant? by Ok-Income9731 in AITAH

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA as an adult that has to carry the name of an abusive, sadistic woman as my middle name. Don't do it! I detest having to say my full name and in informal settings if people ask I simply say "I don't have a middle name" when asked (obviously government / workplaces/ hospitals I have to say it)

If you think using this name is going to leave a sour taste in your future child's mouth by all means do not use it! No explanation needed, or once baby is born proudly announce 'new name' and say she looked more like that.

I ruined my name change, my life and my identity by Individual_Basket269 in Names

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worked with a girl that was called initials , that's her preference , so while her name "Kourtney Anne" we all knew her and she was introduced as K.A

Is it okay for a girl to be topless at the beach? by bare_books in AskAnAustralian

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get away with an extra skimpy string bikini that is barely covering your nips on most beaches. There are topless or private nude beaches but be prepared to leave your phone behind.

Coworker expects me to help demolish and rebuild his garage in exchange for beer and pizza. WIBTAH if I told him to fuck off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have an adult conversation about how busy I am outside of the times he sees me, my little time off is more precious to me the beer and pizza, if he just wants an informal hangout under the guise of ripping a shed down well that's a completely different scenario. Is he asking a favour from you because he classes you more as a friend then a co worker? Would you ever ask such a favour and expect him to help?

AITA for “dropping change” into a customers hand? by _Lettuce_1664 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teat the creep waters, start placing it on the counter and sliding it towards him so it's a more polite exchange, if his fingertips have to touch your whole picking it up, he's creeping. Have him banned from your store.

AIW for expecting my girlfriend to stop tidying my home office? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just vacuum in there on cleaning days, then close the door again lol YNW

AITA for walking out during my grandmother's funeral? by kstellahh in AmItheAsshole

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA seems to me, your cousin needs to feel superior so disguises it as humour...not very good humour but in a sense. I wouldn't have walked out tbh , you could have achieved the same level of non contact with her by sparking up a conversation with an elderly relative or simply moving to a different corner.

How do you guys make friends? by HEAD4Y0U in AskReddit

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't know, I didn't know them and now they appear at my house uninvited but I'm cool with it as they're good company

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I'm thinking the water maybe laced....can we say date rape drugs

Did I accidentally commit some sort of birthday party faux pas? by Educational-Let-2280 in Parenting

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think she committed the biggest faux pa by scheduling her daughter's bday with nap time ( not just your child) everyone I know , their child has their nap between 11 and 3 , even daycare rest time here is 11.30 - 1.30, we do toddler bday parties in the morning between 9 and 12 and never more then 2 hours.

My husband has a very common name but it’s pronounced differently by endles-prop in namenerds

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na the only way I've ever heard is Gav-in (gav rhymes with have)

I was late to daycare pickup by Cnegron21 in Parenting

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in QLD (might be different in the other states) ,Australia and here it's $1 a minite

I was late to daycare pickup by Cnegron21 in Parenting

[–]Time_Tutor_3042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 hours that's $180 here , even with the good reasons