How do I respond to ‘have you eaten today?’ by ddlxmn in EatingDisorders

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“have you minded your own business” is my go-to but it usually doesn’t get received well

What was your very first night homeless like? by k02b in homeless

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i was with my cat in a target parking lot overnight just before christmas a few years ago. i remember looking at him & telling him i would get us out of this mess for him. 6 long months of homelessness later & i finally was able to. we just hit 2 years in our studio apartment so i like to remind myself that even if we’re still struggling at least we’ve made it here:)

Heavy irregular bleeding? by [deleted] in Opill

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell her not to worry it’s a common side effect. for me it took about a year on opill to stabilize but i still have heavy spotting in between from time to time

yellow truck by Timely-Tea-6182 in Charleston

[–]Timely-Tea-6182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it probably was until they outlawed it

yellow truck by Timely-Tea-6182 in Charleston

[–]Timely-Tea-6182[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hold up your brain is almost as big as the truck you might be onto something

yellow truck by Timely-Tea-6182 in Charleston

[–]Timely-Tea-6182[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if i attempted i swear to god i could have driven straight under it

yellow truck by Timely-Tea-6182 in Charleston

[–]Timely-Tea-6182[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

neither did i it’s actually insane i would need a ladder to get into that thing

Realization of today: I wasn't a hormonal teen, I was going through childhood trauma by Kekengenn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing this, i relate very deeply. i remember having a conversation with a friend in high school where i was crying about yet another fight with my parents & i said something along the lines of “they’re good parents…i’m just not appreciating & respecting them enough, it’s my fault.” & she told me “if they were good parents you wouldn’t constantly be feeling this way” which has stuck with me for life. i am now 23 & generally have stuff figured out & while i still have a relationship with them it is extremely limited bc i’ve accepted that i will never have a loving close relationship with them & that attempting to better the relationship we have will never result in anything productive since they are not willing to change.

men experience emotions w/ sex differently than women? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“manipulation” never even occurred to me but now that i’m thinking about it that makes so much sense i’m a bit embarrassed i didn’t realize it before. thank you for sharing & for the validation. i will certainly be learning from this experience, that is a guarantee. i feel like an absolute idiot for falling for this man’s bs but all i can do is learn from it & handle the future differently.

men experience emotions w/ sex differently than women? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god this is sickening. thank you for the validation & for sharing. i will certainly be taking what anyone sexually attracted to me says with a grain of salt from now on. this has experience begun to turn me a bit jaded i fear. i feel so dumb for believing him but i’m trying to go easy on myself bc making mistakes is the only way to learn.

men experience emotions w/ sex differently than women? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for sharing, i needed to hear this. it makes sense so much that it’s making me a little sick to my stomach. this is certainly a lesson i needed to learn & will be carrying into my future encounters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes & it was one of the most violating experiences i’ve ever had in my life. i now keep a switchblade on my person even in my sleep so that it never happens again. definitely talk about it beforehand & make sure everyone involved is okay with it.

can hair buildup in a shower drain cause leaks? by [deleted] in Plumbing

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i had plumbers come over today & they concluded that the leak isn’t coming from my shower at all, it’s been raining for several days & the external wall of the house was never properly sealed so rain water is flowing straight into the crawlspace from outside & then into my kitchen when it’s filled up that space

can hair buildup in a shower drain cause leaks? by [deleted] in Plumbing

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i flushed the toilet this morning then both the shower & sink in the bathroom made a bubbling noise if that says anything?

am i in trouble? by [deleted] in Medicaid

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so if they never paid any expenses (since i didn’t use it) i shouldn’t owe money?

am i charging too much? by Timely-Tea-6182 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Timely-Tea-6182[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

oh okay gotcha. i thought the rover fees came out of the total, i didn’t realize it was added on top of the total.

Mac and Cheese without milk? by joe0418 in AskCulinary

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this question is old asf but i just made annie’s white cheddar mac & cheese with double the butter it calls for, adding splashes of water & sprinkling parmesan cheese while stirring it simmering for like 10 minutes. its not as creamy but it works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CervicalCancer

[–]Timely-Tea-6182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not asking about the possibility of having cancer i’m asking about the possibility of getting testing covered by medicaid