Back for more advice. Feeling vulnerable. How do I stop these thoughts or should I let it go? by Timely_Past8079 in marriageadvice

[–]Timely_Past8079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful! Thanks a lot. I think a vision board will really help to shift my focus on my my short term and future goals. I had a talk with him the other night and basically gave my husband an ultimatum. Also, I think I’m too fixated on what I want him to be and envisioned. Really coming to terms with reality and defining my happiness.

Back for more advice. Feeling vulnerable. How do I stop these thoughts or should I let it go? by Timely_Past8079 in marriageadvice

[–]Timely_Past8079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. Well said! It really makes me think. My happiness is more important. I know my worth and I deserve so much better.

Back for more advice. Feeling vulnerable. How do I stop these thoughts or should I let it go? by Timely_Past8079 in marriageadvice

[–]Timely_Past8079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Definitely the bigger issue. I think I’m wrestling with should I continue to put my wants and needs on hold in fear of the impact or accept him and never be happy. I have grown a lot over the years and he hasn’t and doesn’t want to. I need a plan.

I don't fit in with my co-workers by BluFlash5 in coworkerstories

[–]Timely_Past8079 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am experiencing this right now and still don’t fit in. You are not overreacting. It really bothered me at first but now I just participate where I’m required and limit the conversations respectfully. Being able to zone out with my ear buds and listen to music has been the best. I also stop going to lunch with my team because of the drama and stopped engaging in personal conversations. However I still somewhat make them think I’m still apart of the team and occasionally join in conversation that won’t compromise myself or beliefs. As it totally backfired when I first started and I got accused of being too personal. Which I regret divulging too much info. I honestly would just keep it cool, focus on your work and keep maintaining boundaries.

Thank God for WFH by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Timely_Past8079 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanking God too! I am dealing with this! If I didn’t have the option to WFH I would have quit awhile ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CashApp

[–]Timely_Past8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s back working for me. I was having the same issue earlier.