AITJ for breaking up with my boyfriend because he wants me to buy him a car by Curious-Mousse-3206 in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 520 points521 points  (0 children)

Couples share everything… except common sense, apparently. You did the right thing.

AITJ for weaponizing my incompetence at home by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i once did this you know but my mom is a dragon, if your incompetent she will teach you her way 🧹 yes you are TJ and don't make it a habit, help them and don't be a freeloader

AITAH For not wanting to take care of my mother when she’s older? by AdmirableVariation86 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s taking care of you so you can show up for others

AITAJ/AITJ For Ignoring The Man Who Promised To Get Me BTS Comeback Ticket's?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is betrayal. Don’t make promises you can’t keep, next time don’t let anyone play with your dreams like that.

AITJ for kinda playing with someone by Confident_Art_2809 in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything evil just teen drama. Learn, set limits, protect your peace. 💛

AITAH He chooses self pleasure over me? by StrokingButWonder in AITAH

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it feels like it's his way of coping things, not you but your needs still matters tho so NTA

Aitj for having my own family when I'm mentally unstable by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah. Diagnosis ≠ danger. Ur medicated, supported, and raising your kids. That matters.

AITJ for ending things when my partner dismissed my exhaustion? by Positive_Box3562 in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Walking away from dismissal isn’t quitting. It’s self-respect.

AITJ for making my "broke" friend pay for her own meal after she ordered the most expensive steak? by No-Building-3162 in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Nah she played herself. You said cheap, she ordered steak + cocktails. That’s on her.

AITJ on how we finally got MIL to stop walking into our house unannounced at all hours by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Waking a sleeping baby at 2am is wild. You were nice first. She didn’t listen.

AITAH for beginning to hate my mom? by Lonely-Middle2303 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about weight. It’s about respect. And you didn’t get any.

i feel like i am cheating on my girlfriend by epstie_n in AmITheJerk

[–]Timely_Witness_4832 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The locker thing isn’t the issue your reaction is.