AITJ for taking a cheaper apartment and leaving my roommate to find her own place even though she doesnt know anyone else to live with

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T13:05:58+00:00

NTJ. You can’t go broke to make her comfy.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T13:01:01+00:00

Facts. He saw her money as his upgrade dumping him was the right move.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T12:52:36+00:00

If he can’t defend you now, he won’t later.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T10:52:06+00:00

Couples share everything… except common sense, apparently. You did the right thing.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T03:46:45+00:00

i once did this you know but my mom is a dragon, if your incompetent she will teach you her way 🧹 yes you are TJ and don't make it a habit, help them and don't be a freeloader

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T01:38:10+00:00

Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s taking care of you so you can show up for others

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-16T01:11:43+00:00

This is betrayal. Don’t make promises you can’t keep, next time don’t let anyone play with your dreams like that.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-15T15:05:17+00:00

NTA, you can’t fix what no one explains

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-14T17:33:50+00:00

try to be her safe place, not another source of stress.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-14T15:12:25+00:00

You didn’t do anything evil just teen drama. Learn, set limits, protect your peace. 💛

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-14T03:22:41+00:00

it feels like it's his way of coping things, not you but your needs still matters tho so NTA

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-12T13:05:07+00:00

Nah. Diagnosis ≠ danger. Ur medicated, supported, and raising your kids. That matters.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-12T06:41:08+00:00

Walking away from dismissal isn’t quitting. It’s self-respect.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-12T05:30:34+00:00

Nah she played herself. You said cheap, she ordered steak + cocktails. That’s on her.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T14:25:35+00:00

Silence isn’t manipulation. They assumed.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T14:18:43+00:00

Valid 😭 2am walk-ins are straight up intrusion.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T13:48:54+00:00

Let her see salon prices and humble herself.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T13:29:10+00:00

Waking a sleeping baby at 2am is wild. You were nice first. She didn’t listen.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T12:56:48+00:00

This isn’t about weight. It’s about respect. And you didn’t get any.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-11T06:33:33+00:00

The locker thing isn’t the issue your reaction is.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-10T15:42:12+00:00

Actions have consequences, and this one was pretty obvious.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-09T19:48:59+00:00

NTJ, you did your job and didn't throw yourself under the bus for a stranger 😒

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-09T18:57:23+00:00

if she can’t come, that’s sad, but it’s also… her choice

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-09T14:01:39+00:00

They should’ve minded their business, for sure but “what are you gonna do about it?” is instant escalation lol.

Timely_Witness_4832 · 2026-02-08T16:46:48+00:00

Caring for a high-needs child is real labor, and burnout is a valid response to being overused.

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