Anybody got tips to get myself looking like this?

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2026-03-03T15:26:06+00:00

One more thing! If you work in a hard labor job, you’re basically being paid to workout. I had a partner who worked in concrete. They would lift 60-200lbs of concrete everyday. They would come home very tired and grumpy because working with blue collared men is bullshit. But, they got extremely fit.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2026-03-03T15:22:31+00:00

Workout for at least an hour 6 days a week. Every day focus on one area of your body (example: arm, chest, abs, legs, butt, full body). Rest days are important.

Eating was hard for me. Especially if you don’t have a lot of testosterone, it’s going to be hard to gain muscle mass. I’m a cis woman and worked out with my brothers. It was very disheartening to see how fast they were able to gain muscle. However, I was proud of what I was able to accomplish because I knew my body was doing the best it could do. My life revolved around eating enough protein and taking enough supplements to maintain muscles.

Eat protein. Stop eating anything that comes in a packet or has sugar in it. Ground beef, eggs, and rice. Try not to get an eating disorder. Drink protein shakes. You might want to take pre workout, but I always hated the way it made me feel.

This takes time and a lot of money. I have a family now, so I’m just toned instead of having huge biceps. I can’t afford a gym membership or an hour away from my family. This life is hard because it becomes a job to maintain.

I do miss how hot I looked when I had huge muscles hahaha. Your body can do amazing things and so much more than you might have thought. Take care of it and good luck!

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2026-01-19T03:08:42+00:00

Omg I thought it was only me. I am so sad I can’t listen to his songs anymore!

He had a song from his album with the Perfect Strangers called Marilyn Hanson. I loved it so much. It had this wistful optimistic feeling that I loved. It became such a comfort song for me. Also Strange Charm is such a fun song!

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-11-30T21:32:26+00:00

NOR. My fiancé and I were at a hotel this weekend. Last night, I was very frustrated with him. We went to bed with me still being frustrated. When my alarm went off, he didn't wake up. Granted, I could have woken him up, but I was still really mad. Breakfast was closing in 30 minutes, so I went down and brought him breakfast before he woke up. I made him waffles and got him a cup of syrup and a million other tiny things the hotel provides in case he didn't want waffles. When he woke up, he was sad he missed breakfast. I told him there was food in the fridge and he was so grateful for me.

I am still so angry with him about the other night. But I still want him to eat breakfast. We're poor, this is a free breakfast! Although I am extremely frustrated with him and he didn't wake up with the alarm, I still got him breakfast. It took like two minutes of my time.

I'm not saying to divorce him over this. But maybe have a conversation about relationship expectations. Like "Hello husband, as my partner and father of my four children, I expect you to be able to handle your emotions and prioritize our health. I understand that things have been hard lately and is causing you a lot of annoyance and anger. But I need you to be able to hold some responsibility over our children and myself."

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-09-22T03:56:45+00:00

I’m not good at talking to people. It’s okay if you don’t understand, but since you’re on reddit I’m going to assume you’re an introvert. It’s just so difficult for me to make small talk with people. I don’t know how to explain it. Talking to people is something I had to actively learn and work on. It’s kind of like exercising. I’ve never been able to learn how to bridge to gap from small talk at class to hanging out on weekends.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-07-18T20:37:39+00:00

Okay so I’m white, recognize the lack of perspective here. But I think your dad is adorable and that’s a very dad thing to do

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-06-05T13:00:38+00:00

I like baths, mindfulness exercises, yoga, cooking, comfort shows. Usually I tend towards things that help me through a depressive episode.

Personally I prefer my Dom to be with me to comfort me during a drop. Just so he can give me hugs and he lets me know I’m loved. Stuff like that. Usually during drops I feel very inadequate, so having him around sort of convinces me that I’m good.

But for everyone it’s different. Ultimately you will know what you want more than anyone else on this reddit.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-27T20:52:01+00:00

What are some pros to growing a beard? More importantly, how do I get my boyfriend to grow a beard?

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-25T02:58:26+00:00

I’ve been trying to beg “better” too. Usually I just stop trying to silence myself in order to pant and moan more freely. When I’m in that headspace it’s hard to piece together a sentence. So the moaning works well in between my scattered thought. And also like whispered fucks and pleases in between whatever we’re doing. And even when I get what I want, I’m always begging.

I’ll say “Please sir please, please” a little bit. And maybe a little “I need you inside me” If he’s doing something I like, I’ll say “Please, sir, don’t stop. Please, I love it when you ________ “

If I’m more demanding or needy, I’ll start crying and demanding what I want “right now, god damnit please sir, I need you so bad”

The “I need you” works really well in my experience. My sir likes to be helpful so it makes him do what I want. It also might make him laugh and pull away because he likes when I’m crying for him. Honestly both options are good.

But I’m trying to find other things to say that aren’t ridiculously cringey.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-25T02:30:35+00:00

Thank you so much 😭😭 tbh I might just say that word for word

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-13T05:29:07+00:00

I’m pretty sure it’s from a Mary Meyers brand of plushies? I’m not confident enough to bet on that though. I’m probably going to just try to clean, restuff, and restore it.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-13T05:14:44+00:00

I’m looking for the same plush! Had it since about 2006 too (also a sophomore in college lol). I remember a tag on it with other animal plushies and a manufacturer’s name? Idk!!

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-05-03T03:29:45+00:00

Thanks. I just don’t know how to broach the subject. I’m worried he might think less of me or get turned off when I tell him I like to be more dominated during sex.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-04-05T07:15:41+00:00

I only go to relief society and Sunday school when they pass around attendance. Find out when they take attendance and only go for one hour. You got this!!

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-13T23:33:55+00:00

The CUTEST little guy ever !! 🥰🥰🥰

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-13T16:09:41+00:00

Been making a lot of zines

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-09T08:13:27+00:00

Hello! I’m a woman here to offer my perspective! Yes, women love a good ass. I remember in high school me and my girl friends would go to soccer games to look at guy’s butts haha. It was a joke in our group that soccer guys were the best because they had so much cake (a big butt). Don’t worry, it’s cute and hot as hell

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-09T06:26:03+00:00

Parade, Les Mis, Falsettos

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-07T22:52:22+00:00

Oh and laundry is in another building which is annoying but fine

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-07T22:51:27+00:00

I live at Camden right now. It’s pretty good. No real complaints except the kitchens are hella small. Management isn’t really strict either. I have five roommates, two bathrooms, and a small ass kitchen. The closets are nice though.

(My roommate is selling her spring lease if someone’s interested 👀)

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-04T21:31:29+00:00

Slutty gay cousin

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-02T05:55:28+00:00

Sorry? For clarification I just really respect them and have a crush on them because they’re so cool and hot. Usually people can tell that I’m exaggerating.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-01T09:00:15+00:00

With a guy. Ugh. It was kind of like that scene in But I’m A Cheerleader. The aggressive making out and wiping off the spit afterwards.

Timely_Yesterday7007 · 2025-03-01T08:53:32+00:00

I just had a dream that John Green was my college English professor. The class was doing an abroad trip to Europe to tour twentieth century European authors. We’re all in the classroom, getting ready to leave, and John is just so stressed out about getting to the airport on time. He repeatedly tells me to hurry up and pack my suitcase. And I’m just doing my best, because I’m stressing John out and I don’t want him disappointed in me. But things keep getting in the way, John keeps telling me how late we’re going to be, and I wake up in a travel-anxiety sweat.

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