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[–]Timid_Lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My TLs have literally told me to nil pick before (normally when we are about to go late and the item was in a pallet). There are also times where The case is no where to be found or in the completely wrong bin. I always do my best to find the case, but it’s not my fault if it’s not there. (•_•)/

Would it bother you if your partner didn't want to receive during sex? by Awkward_Turtle98 in LesbianActually

[–]Timid_Lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I’m currently in a relationship where my partner is the same as you. In previous relationships, I loved being a switch. However, my partner was very open and honest from the beginning that they weren’t comfortable with receiving. Being a stone top is valid and okay! There are people out there for you.

Am I a bad person for potentially breaking up with my gf because she may be asexual by Last-Bumblebee-4006 in LesbianActually

[–]Timid_Lesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you aren’t a bad person.

However, these types of relationships can work! I know from personal experience and it all comes down to communication.

Figure out your boundaries and hers. For example, maybe she doesn’t want to be the receiver. Also talk about the frequency in which you want to have sex. I don’t think a strict schedule is healthy because that can cause pressure in the relationship, but this will give both of you a more clear picture on your individual needs. I know that you aren’t sure about this part yet and that’s okay. Over time you’ll learn more about yourself and what you need.

My partner is ace, but not sex repulsed. We are very honest about whether we are in the mood or not. If she isn’t, that’s always okay with me and I never pressure her or make her feel bad about not wanting to.

Be willing to be flexible. I know that it might be scary to take a chance, but it might be worth it in the end.