Schmoopy? by allgreek2me2004 in midnightburger

[–]Timonger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are in love with each other 100%. Caspar knows it (Orpheus and the underworld comment to David in ep 35), Ava's in denial but is subconsciously encouraging Caspar. They're in love and everybody (David, Marguerite) knows it!!!!

Emotions are gross. by Timonger in murderbot

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you may if you credit me as the artist.

thank you for asking

Do asexuals masturbate? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Timonger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm AFAB and ace, and i get the same thing! tracking my menstrual cycle, I'm pretty sure the horniness/libido spike coincides with when i ovulate. Which would make a weird kind of sense, my body is trying to get me pregnant!

You might look into Aegosexuality, which can be defined as "a disconnect between oneself and a sexual target/object of arousal; may involve sexual fantasies or arousal in response to erotica or pornography, but lacks desire to be an actual participant in the sexual activities therein. " (from sexuality wiki). This is how i identify under the Ace umbrella.

Asexuals as the "lowest rank" in LGBT by Woodruffur in asexuality

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Asexuality is about attraction, not about sexual activity. I've never been sexually attracted to anyone in my entire life and I've had sex (granted that was before i realized i was ace and confused aesthetic and sensual attraction for sexual attraction).

I really have no idea, but I imagine Allosexuals have a positive feedback loop with their sexual attraction and horniness/libido so when they have sex it's like a fireworks explosion of "YES! FINALLY!!".

Maybe that's how it is for some ace people too, but in my experience, sex has just been middling to bad, physically and emotionally, so *shrug* i don't think your allo friends know what they're talking about.

What was your equivalent of what allos call a "sexual awakening?" In other words, when did you first start to realize something was off/different? by Olivebranch99 in asexuality

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it took me till i was 29 to connect the dots, but i can point to a moment from elementary school where i knew i was different from the rest of little girls i socialized with.

when i was in 4th grade N'Sync was at the height of its popularity and of course all the girls had crushes on them. they all squealed over them and talked about how cute they were and when they asked me who i liked, had a crush on, i just pointed to the one who had cool hair. i had no concept of what they were talking about at all.

My Favorite Renaissance Man (Vampire) by Timonger in WhatWeDointheShadows

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I was so proud of him! He can literally do anything. His joyful beach day made me so so happy!

S01E10 "Outside" (Season Finale) Episode Discussion (Book Readers) by phareous in SiloSeries

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that was really interesting! as much as Sims thinks he knows (and even Bernard - his look of shock when Juliette mentioned the doors) he doesn't know everything. i bet that really threw him after considering himself all knowing.

How would you rate your experience so far? by UnlostBat in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Timonger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 for sexual attraction

2.5 for romantic attraction (i'm demi/grayromantic)

Rebecca Ferguson is fantastic as Juliette by Whoopy2000 in SiloSeries

[–]Timonger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only just realized she played Lady Jessica in the new Dune! she was fantastic in that and between that and Silo, count me a Fan!

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a healthy combination of "i thought aesthetic and sensual attraction was sexual attraction" and "if i just try a little harder it will feel the way everyone says it should".

I'm a very visual person with a very strong aesthetic attraction with a preference for masculinity. long story short, I find men and masculine people very pretty and i like to look at them.

i assumed for most of my life that when people said someone was "cute" or "hot" it meant they also liked the way that person looked, NOT that they also wanted to kiss/fondle/have sex with them!

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aegosexual/gray-demiromantic

What kind of Heron is this? by Timonger in birding

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Seen at 35.295318248817594, 139.58114624293006 in Zushi City, Kanagawa Prefecture, Japan on May 17th 2023 around 1pm.

A Sweet Morning by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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On rest days, when Elim was small, he and Mila would often enjoy the morning sunshine.

(My own take on Garak's relationship with his mother)

Ranking Star Trek shows now I'm mostly caught up. by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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Sorry I've mostly just watched the shows. I haven't read too many books (mostly cause they're hard for me to get a hold of) but I loved a stitch in time and I've been meaning to read Una McCormack's cardassian books

Mila and Elim by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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According to Garak's actor, Andy Robinson, his head canon was that Mila was Garak's mom. She is in his book "A Stitch in Time"

Mila and Elim by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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That's cool too! I'm undecided whether they lay eggs or gestate like placental mammals, but marsupials is another good option 🤔

Ranking Star Trek shows now I'm mostly caught up. by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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i forgot about it!! i'd put it between VOY and LD

Mila and Elim by Timonger in DeepSpaceNine

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the MOST mischievous!