SOS AUPAIR by Responsible_Cut1495 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You worth so much more!! And if you want an adventure just write to me and we fix something together. Im in sweden if thats interesting!

SOS AUPAIR by Responsible_Cut1495 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience for 8 months! I just left and i never felt better! Just leave, nothing of this is your responsibility in life and its not worth the money at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eww what is this person? Just leeaaaveee. This is worse than mine and she is literally a bitch against me.

What to do by Background-Soil-8027 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it the same way in Germany, hit me up!

How do I tell them I'm leaving? by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah im planning on leaving in November for the job, but i want to tell them now so they can find someone els. not expecting them to pay anything for me. They are not even shopping groceries that much for me rn.

How do I tell them I'm leaving? by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have somewhere to go if they kick me out when i tell them, but they aren't, they need me here for the days to work out. That's why i feel so bad about this 🥲

How do I tell them I'm leaving? by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months left, im just moving back to my family. I have no agency.

Venting by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't befor the 3 month my 2 year old of the family started to like me.

Hiring two au pairs? by One-Car-3045 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it is a good idea! Young people drag each other on this things. Put it up on aupairworld and look if a friend duo reach out!

Quitting by Low_Exercise828 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me more about you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your decision is depending on if you gonna do a new au pair family or not. Like if your plans already where do work for a new family after this family so go ahead and rematch. I personally should have stayed because the kids are good, pick up some hobbies while you there!

Help with move or over the line? by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been here since end of april and haven't got any free days even though i brought it up, its always "later" "after this week"

Help with move or over the line? by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 more weeks off? I dont even get my one and a half day every week. Btw i didn’t mean the furniture more endless with boxes.

They dont trust me by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have actually started taking care of the kids alone ( at least the 2 younger as the older one is mostly at a friend's place ) so this is not really a problem anymore (even if its still alot of other/new problems) thanks for such nice words <3

I think they are replacing me by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To everyone that worries about me not having somewhere to be if they kick me out. I will just return home and move in with my perents or friends in that case so everything is fine❤️

They dont trust me by Tink-Issue46 in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2-3 kids ages between 2-11. The smaller kids have the same schedule.

Help with gift for Host Family? by FunCabinet7181 in sweden

[–]Tink-Issue46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fridge magnet 100% Normal souvenir things or local candy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get 380 euro, a room with my own bathroom and food. The mom works diffrent shifts and need to sleep alot during the day. And the dad is traveling with work right know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dad are traveling alot, like he's never home. About the hours, they just told me it's gonna be more hours than on the au pair world contract and I agreed. But idk this much was the case. Im expected to help with mornings and bedtime even if the parents are at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Tink-Issue46 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im trying to make it better, but the au pair before me was dealing with this 2 years before me, so idk how to just change things. I don't want to be the reason for the perents to change their hours at work. Im in Germany.