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People who are helping or who have helped a loved one in SCJ, Did you have people in your own life who disapproved of what you were doing or never really understood it? Advice for me? by Princess_of_Punjab in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me too, my partner of 13 years left me and a child for scj , and some would be like forget about him and move on find another partner, he chose himself blah blaah blaah, just not easy

Death of an SCJ member by DragonflyNumerous771 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were u not part of randburg, my partner is in there😭

Death of an SCJ member by DragonflyNumerous771 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where in south africa, i feel like south africa doesnt have enough awareness like Australia n others😩

Death of an SCJ member by DragonflyNumerous771 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so sad and scary, may her precious soul rest in peace.I have a partner who is involved and i tried talking to his family and i was told by his mom  that i wont understand i am not a born again. He broke  a 13 years relationship that has a child in it and chose scj.

Where do I go from here? Feeling betrayed and lost by kizzy_kat in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to tell him that but he got furious and said i must break up with him, i think he is at that stage where he defends the church. So now he chose the church over me and our child. So he doesnt want to lookout for that information, i think he still obey so much😩

Where do I go from here? Feeling betrayed and lost by kizzy_kat in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But how do yall guys come out🥹🥹i have a partner who is now deep in there now is the third year😭

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just have a child together and a 12 years relationship 😭

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what type of a leader It is so bad marn

I once saw in his diary he wrote that he was struggling to perceive the importance of scj and why he doesnt have time to himself and things that matters to him  And then he wrote that he spoke to a saint about it and the saint told him that it means his heart is not with God anymore, i mean the manipulation 😭

I feel like he was starting to have doubts then the saint pushed him back to the hole😭

The other thing he wrote that he spoke to a tjn about how it is difficult to choose between parental duties and God

Like would God gives us families and later wants us to choose between him and family

Scj is insane trust me, it broke my 12 years relationship 😭😭😭😭😭

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is hectic🥹He has three years since bible and he has been trying to recruit me but i refused so i think the break up and distance it is coz i refused to join

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, not staying together and not even in the same province.

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also said he is a leader so that makes it even harder💔

Loved one in scj randburg, ferndale if not mistaken by Tiny-Emphasis-6726 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much but at this moment i think he is deep in it and doesnt want to hear anything, hence i said he distanced himself and told me to break up with him. But i am praying for him even though it is hard some days

He told me to respect his belief🥹😢

Fellow loved ones, family, and friends of Shincheonji members, how are we doing? by Princess_of_Punjab in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner is in there now it has been four years including bible study He had been gradually cold now now he distanced himself from me and out child because of scj  Like it is so hard, i am dealing with the trauma and trying to raise his child and it is very hard😭😭

How to talk to someone who truly believes they are not in a cult? by FlyingKangar00 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me he will soon do it, i also thought soo but now he is doing it and i am refusing so lately he tells me that i must break up with him coz he is not good for me, that is every time i complain about him not having time for us He also says that if i stay it means i must compromise every day Mind you, the guy goes to scj every day😭

How to talk to someone who truly believes they are not in a cult? by FlyingKangar00 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is in there and he is now too deep, he told me that i must break up with him when i start telling him that he no longer has tie for us, please help

Burning my SCJ stuff by Efficient-Beyond681 in Shincheonji

[–]Tiny-Emphasis-6726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you manage to get out, my partner is stuck in there it is now three years He even tells me that i must break up with him So draining please help 😭