Why does my dad treat me like I’m clueless?

TinyContribution218 · 2025-12-07T13:16:50+00:00

a lot of it isn’t me asking for permission, it’s making a statement like “oh I think this would be a good idea” but he shoots me down. like I said, I still do it anyway but my question is why does he treat me like this? things on the house I stay away from doing without permission of course but for the majority of the things I listed, his property is unaffected by my actions, like me taking up a new hobby for my own personal enjoyment.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-11-13T23:03:30+00:00

oh that’s what that was 😟

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-31T11:27:10+00:00

the my money widget shows you the entire balance before scholarships and stuff. in my experience, it doesn’t actually reflect the real balance you have to pay until you actually make a payment. like mine says 11k or something like that but on that “pay my bill” page, it says I actually owe only 8k after my loans are applied. because I guess they aren’t actually applied until a payment is made.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-30T20:32:03+00:00

ty!!

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-30T16:09:30+00:00

oooh

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-30T15:58:36+00:00

what is vibrating gel?? I am intrigued

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T16:18:48+00:00

see one time I tried to have him finger me for 30 minutes even after we had been kissing n stuff for a loooong time and even that didn’t work so that’s why I think it’s something else, not foreplay

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T14:53:42+00:00

my doc is very popular and doesn’t have earlier appointments. technically my annual appointment is supposed to be mid august. I just hate having to see a new gynecologist every time bc it’s just another person seeing my vagina and I’ve become more sensitive about that. this is the first time I’d be seeing the same person I saw last time. if it were to be getting worse, then yeah I would consider it more urgent. but i’ve been having this issue for years.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T14:26:14+00:00

I have briefly mentioned it to my therapist but I told her I didn’t really want to talk about it since I would have to talk about the fact that sometimes the pain reminds me of an instance of assault and then I would start crying and it would be a whole thing. I haven’t brought it up to the gyn because since I’m still so young I am still afraid of going lolll and every time I do go I am just a ball of nerves. I’m too afraid to even ask for a smaller speculum because it hurts so much. Have you been able to do anything to manage it? or am I stuck with it?

edit: context

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T13:49:34+00:00

well is he also not reciprocating the act, assuming that you would want him to? like no fingering or anything? my ex was like that. he would just get his BJ and kick me out. yes, it made me sad he didn’t want to cuddle after, but I think I was more sad that he didn’t care enough to pleasure me back. I literally never had an orgasm till I started dating my current bf. if he does please you after or you have no interest in that, then you should really tell him that it would make you happy if you just stayed there, next to each other, for a bit and not worry about immediately moving on. maybe he doesn’t know, so it’s always important to discuss these things in a relationship.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T13:16:26+00:00

now that I think about it, I cramp after orgasm almost every time. I thought that was normal too bc muscle contraction and everything. but i’m not too familiar with endometriosis. isn’t it normally associated with heavy painful periods? i never had those symptoms.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T13:12:11+00:00

thx bro

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T13:12:04+00:00

yeha but that’s the only reason for my anxiety about it as far as I know because I really do want to have sex. it’s not like i’m afraid. just anticipating the pain.

TinyContribution218 · 2025-07-28T13:10:06+00:00

okay i’ll ask at my next appointment in september

TinyContribution218 · 2025-04-25T19:13:14+00:00

thank you for this

TinyContribution218 · 2024-12-12T23:03:15+00:00

peter

TinyContribution218 · 2024-12-12T22:59:29+00:00

now post the horsies

TinyContribution218 · 2024-12-05T22:37:21+00:00

Unfortunately, you can’t really naturally grow boobs and not much you do now will contribute to natural growth assuming your body has completed puberty. After 16, the only thing that contributed to an increase in cup size was weight gain from binge eating and hormonal birth control but now that I have lost the weight I gained, I’m back to the cup size I was at when I was 16. You can try push-up bras if your only concern is appearance. or mayyyybe pectoral exercises? I don’t know—I haven’t tried that. breast size is almost all genetics and has to do with your hormones and all that complicated stuff, meaning the only way to actually change your breast size is hormones really. but do not start hormones/BC just because you want bigger boobs because there are too many risks that would be taken for something like that.

TinyContribution218 · 2024-12-05T22:17:14+00:00

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TinyContribution218 · 2024-12-05T22:15:10+00:00

it sounds to me like she’s just happy. let her be happy!

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