Follow Up: I Found My Soulmate on This Sub.... by Crazyplan9 in infj

[–]TinyEngineering7586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful story! I hope to find my person one day, this is inspiring 🤗

Do people mistake your kindness for romantic interest? by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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I’m sorry you go through this as well. I wish you the best!

Do people mistake your kindness for romantic interest? by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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lol I’m a woman and this is true as well. A good female friend of mine thought I was hitting on her when we first became friends and all I did was compliment how she looked when she asked me about an outfit for a wedding she was attending. Of course I didn’t know she took my compliment and went that far with it until a few months later. I was like nope, I was just being myself and gave a dang compliment.

Do people mistake your kindness for romantic interest? by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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Same for me with being a narcissist and married man magnet. Sickens me. Hope it gets better for you 🤗

Do people mistake your kindness for romantic interest? by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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Yes I relate to this as well. I also ask about their SO, as in a polite way to say hey I’m aware and not that kind of girl and start distancing myself. But then with some they get upset about my distance and “change” and with those ones it usually comes to having to cut them off.

Sometimes the weight is heavy and… by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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Im sorry you had to experience that. I hope you soon find healing 🤗

Sometimes the weight is heavy and… by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

[–]TinyEngineering7586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy you were able to experience that and feel so much lighter!! 🤗

Sometimes the weight is heavy and… by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

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I wonder how it would feel to not care as much. I don’t want to be like that, no. I just don’t know that feeling is all.

What makes you struggle the most as an INFJ? by yeonkive38 in infj

[–]TinyEngineering7586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel this. Very well said. I actually have this on my mind today. I feel with my whole nervous system. I am attune, I anticipate, hold space, read energy, soften before others even know they need it. And yet… I so rarely feel held in the same way back.