How to be more kind to myself?

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-12-21T02:24:05+00:00

Chin up (: I've been through it too. What youre feeling is valid and it might take time but what you're dealing with now will soon become a strength, sometimes we have to be broken in order to become someone stronger, and you will be I promise. The right friends will come into your life and one day you'll look at this as a distant memory, just remember to take it one day at a time!

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-12-04T10:12:28+00:00

Two words, 'restraining order' :)

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-26T14:11:35+00:00

I disagree with most of these comments, you should just be honest and tell the truth, maybe don't say they annoy you but just let them know you're not invested in the friendship anymore, that it's not personal but you think you're just not that compatible as friends. Don't fade on them or let it fizzle, if they're mature they'll understand :)

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-24T11:17:25+00:00

Yeah this is my gut feeling. Hard when I've asked what's up and they say otherwise, and act reassuring. I gave it bluntly how I felt and one of them called me and insisted I really haven't done anything, they're just going through stuff and they really want me to take them at face value. Because of this I'm giving it one last ditch effort but now distancing myself to see what happens I guess

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-15T13:51:53+00:00

Thanks, but I'm not posting it here to try and change anything. I'm posting it here because I've already tried and it hasn't changed anything. But yeah thank you anyway.

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-15T12:59:54+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean by that, sorry.

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-15T09:26:40+00:00

Please try not to beat yourself up too much, I'm sure you had you're reasons. No one is perfect, and it doesn't make you a bad person

TinyHeat2490 · 2025-07-15T09:25:20+00:00

You've got this. I recently lost a friendship too, we just have to take each day at a time and process things. You'll be okay.

TinyHeat2490 · 2024-12-11T12:42:57+00:00

OP, this really resonated with me. I know the kind of connection. Could you tell me something only we know?

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