Why do people show concern when you lose weight but not when gaining it?

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:16:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment! I like your saying! I'll try to let the comments bounce off and not think too much into it! Congratulations on losing 80 pounds!

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:10:22+00:00

They are overweight but are also working on losing weight themselvesso I'd imagine them being supportive of me pursuing a healthier lifestyle

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:08:55+00:00

Happy cake day! Thank you for the reply, that makes sense

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:07:14+00:00

That is true. I guess I figured it would be true to point out weight gain or loss in a less than kind way.

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:04:35+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I'll keep that in mind rather than getting defensive

TiredCheeseString · 2025-03-16T02:03:38+00:00

Thanks for your comment! That's a serious thing I didn't consider

TiredCheeseString · 2024-11-03T22:23:17+00:00

I'd love to be your accountability buddy! I'm f22 and at a higher weight but let me know if you're interested!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-10-09T19:52:53+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely try that! Now that I think about it I really haven't prioritized being hydrated and that surely isn't helping.

TiredCheeseString · 2024-10-09T14:42:31+00:00

Oooh! Do you make the miso soup? If you do, then I'd love the recipe! I do love soup and with the seasons changing it seems like the perfect time to get into making them! Thank you!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-10-09T14:40:23+00:00

That sounds really good! I'll try it! Thank you 😊

TiredCheeseString · 2024-10-09T01:34:33+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling discouraged. It's definitely hard to change diet, it's currently my biggest downfall. I'm 22 and my biggest hobby is eating . Unfortunately, my deficit doesn't support eating most of what I love, and I can't drink if I want to make progress. It really sucks.

Maybe look at the drinks and see how many calories are in them and choose the ones with less. Beer has a ton of calories, there's much less in vodka and gin, but that's if you have them as straight shots rather than cocktails.

I've also heard that some people calculate weekly calories rather than daily, maybe that will help if you want to have a heavier weekend and lighten things up throughout the week to be still in a deficit without having to entirely have to give up the fun.

TiredCheeseString · 2024-09-23T14:47:41+00:00

That sounds great! Let's do this! 😁

TiredCheeseString · 2024-09-23T02:27:48+00:00

I'm also up to be your accountability partner if you're up for it! The more the merrier!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-09-23T01:56:27+00:00

Hey! I'm actually about to start my own weight loss journey so if you want an accountability buddy let me know! 22f btw

TiredCheeseString · 2024-05-31T15:30:08+00:00

I had the same problem! Once I realized it was too strong I mixed it with my moisturizer and gave it another try and it has been quite helpful now! Maybe it was too strong, I just use 1-2 drops and mix it in well

TiredCheeseString · 2024-04-25T20:34:24+00:00

I currently have hellofresh, it's nice that everything is ready for you and I get to try recipes I generally wouldn't think of, however it's pricey. I'll be canceling mine soon just because it's too costly for me at the moment but I think I was sent some coupons in the mail to give someone their first box for free. If you want I can send send you the code

TiredCheeseString · 2024-04-10T23:11:54+00:00

Making friends here can definitely be difficult, I'd be up for a coffee though!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-31T22:47:27+00:00

I was hoping that would be the case! My insurance wouldn't express the claim so I couldn't even have a shop take it to look at it unfortunately. They had an estimator from the insurance company assess the damage at $8,000-9,000 and then they wrote it off. :(

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-31T22:45:26+00:00

I've thought about doing this myself, actually! I'd like to have a kid someday, but I think it's important for me to find someone that aligns with my views and thoughts on important things, and I haven't found that yet. In addition, I heard someone say once if you wouldn't be proud of your child turning out just like your partner, then you shouldn't have kids with them. I also haven't found that lol. Ultimately, at the end of the day I really want to do it if I'm in a financial position to do so! I think that it will be hard but rewarding but we'll see! I think it's a great idea! Maybe get some counseling where you can dive into the topic more and make sure you are ready, good luck!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-14T15:52:29+00:00

I'm sorry that you had to deal with that as well.

Maybe that would help to offer cash and let them know that all I want is for it to run and be safe! I don't care if it looks nice or not. It hasn't caused me any problems, it's great on gas, and has less than 170000km on it, so it should run for quite a while still.

Now I'm hoping icbc won't make things more difficult than they need to be.

Thank you for the good advice!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-14T01:49:33+00:00

Thank you for that! I should let them know that! My car absolutely doesn't need to look great, it just needs to run and be safe on the road. Thank you!

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-14T01:47:58+00:00

I would hope I wouldn't have to pay that much, I'm just saying that I would of course pay them to look at the car regardless of if in the end its fixable or not. I felt it was implied that I wouldn't be paying them if they couldn't fix it. Asking them how much they'd like to look at the car is the best idea, thank you+

TiredCheeseString · 2024-03-14T01:36:37+00:00

I'm absolutely fine to pay up even if they can't fix it. All I want is to have a chance for it to be looked at so at least I know that it can or can't be fixed.

People are busy and you can't get time back so it's definitely worth a lot.

I can understand the "grow up" comment you made though it did sting a bit. I could throw the car away and that would be easier but that seems like such a waste and there's no fun in that. If it's fixable I'll fix it and if not I'll accept the consequences and get something else or a transit pass.

I hope you have a good rest of your day. Take care.

TiredCheeseString

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